Most annoying habits expressed by parents and siblings

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If you are an only child, just write something for parents.

Parents:
-Who fawn over the family pet {if your parents have any, or if you grew up with one} in front of everybody

-Who call you by a pet name, even if you're "too old" for one

-Who talk very loudly on the phone/cell phone

-Who think talking in a baby voice, is a way to help you feel better.

My parents freak out when I stim or sneeze.

They say it's unnatural and not normal.

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My mom does that too whenever I do that, because she thinks of herself as ruler of the universe.

My parent's don't annoy me at all. My sister on the other hand...

~Knows not to push my buttons, but does it anyway.
~Gets offended at any little thing.
~Can't be open-minded enough to even save her life.
~Tries to act like she is my mother.

Siblings:

-May not believe you have AS or take advantage of you because you have AS

-May put his or her belongings everywhere in the house, except his or her room

-May not clean after his or herself after eating

-Won't allow you to watch what you want on TV or play what you want on the CD player

-Will always side with the parents just because he or she doesn't have AS

I'm so glad I'm only child, WOW!

Parents: hissing the "s"s when singing and singing out of tune/with wrong words.
Siblings: 26-year-old sister thumb-sucking and devouering her fingernails, sniffing her fingers and picking her nose. Funny thing is she's the NT!

Parents:

*Complaining about me and comparing me to other people around my age, whether it's someone they know personally or just some random kid they see in a restaurant.
*Telling me not to care what other people think, while they keep telling me to stop doing certain things because other people will think it looks weird.
*Using completely irreverent topics to lecture me with.
*Going into an hour-long lecture when they see anything lower than a A- on my report card.
*Giving me a shorter lecture when they see I have an A- on my report card.
*Complaining about how I don't act normal and yelling at me to act more normal while they completely ignore my little brother's antics which can seem even more weird.
*Lectures me for speaking in English in the house.
*Praising me whenever a peer (again, whether it may be a friend or just some classmate I'm stuck with) comes over. Saying, "Good job! Go out and make friends! Socialize!" in a completely condescending way when it's just for a stupid project.
*Guilt-trips me during lectures by using sad stories of their childhood. Even if it is completely irrelevant.

Siblings:

*Calls me crazy and constantly asking parents if they could drop me off at a mental hospital.
*Constantly bothering, pestering, and talking to my friends (or just simply a classmate I'm stuck with) while I'm working on a project.
*Ignorant.
*Has really bad grammar in BOTH languages.
*Parents make him follow me on the occasion that I'm going somewhere with friends... because that certain group of friends contain people of the opposite gender.

Wow, I listed a lot. My apologies.

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My nephew Coke needs to eat! Obviously we're related.

Parents often telling me how I need to do something more to try to be more with my life to be independent but never tell me what that something is & when I ask they tell me it's for me to figure out.

Parents
-my mum likes to plan things at the last minute, she'll say something like "We're going to _____." Meanwhile I'm nowhere ready to leave and then she gets mad at me because she doesn't want to wait for me to get ready.
-my mum always snaps at me when I walk into her room when I ask her a question or ask her something when she's watching television or on the computer and then when she want to tell me something I snap at her and she gets mad, tit for tat mum
-my family doesn't communicate properly. We have major communication issues
-I know that they love me but I don't get any real guidance from them, they don't get involved in my life and then my mum wonders why I don't feel close to her
-my mum and I run a home daycare and sometimes when she's talking to the parents she'll treat me as if I'm still a little kid in front of the parents
-my mum still says daddy when she's talking to me, ex-Ask your daddy...and she'll say it around my friends as well
-my mum has mental health problems and she can get super emotional and unreasonable at times
-when my mother thinks she completely understands me
-when my mum thinks that we're exactly alike

Siblings
-I don't really have a close relationship with my brother anymore

I understood the topic to be the things we do that they complain about.. Oh well nm.

Brother-
Tells me dinner is ready then spends 20 minutes fixing his plate
Constantly talking, texting, chatting, tweeting, IMing and FBing, and complains he has nobody to talk to
Watches every bride show, WEtv show, and elimination talent show my mom has Tivoed and has conversations with her about the content. That's just a little weird
Manipulates his way out of doing his fair portion of tasks
Only wears actual clothing for less than an hour each day, the rest of the time it's pajamas.
Treats me as though I haven't been out in the world

Mother-
Tells me I should try out for "Jeopardy" but compares me to Rain Man whenever I'm not doing something of benefit
Watches all the previously mentioned crap shows and accuses me of not wanting to be a part of the family if I don't watch them
Complains if i say anything meaningful while these shows are on, God forbid she or anyone else let me watch anything in peace
If I mention having a headache I need to see a doctor right away; she can tell everyone about her head, her nose, her neck, her hip, her stomach, her foot, and her back without any attempt to solve the problem

I don't know how these posts don't become TL,DR

My Mom:

-Never makes eye contact with me or my sister anymore

-Complains about almost everything

-Thinks of herself as ruler of the universe because of her big ego

-Always acts either depressed or offended over almost everything

-Hates everything or everyone around her

-Brainwashed my sister into similar behaviors



My Sister:

-Thinks of herself as my mom

-Hates guys, beginning with me

-Refuses to get herself a BF because of the previous reason

-Hates her friend who she has known since they were in HS

-Believes me doing schoolwork first before doing anything else is wrong

-Vows to move in with me once I find myself employment and save up enough money
to find myself my own place in Portland close to where I will work

My Mum is so over protective of me.
My Dad wants me to talk to him more, when I just don't feel like it.
My brother does what he shouldn;t do, no matter how may times he's told not to.
My sister seems to try to "be all cute and babyish" just to get sttention and not get in trouble.

I could say more as well.

My mom thinks it's her right to pick me up from school every damn day.

What is being done to stop this?

On the days when I'm at school until a later time, I let her pick me up anyhow.

On the days when I'm at school until an earlier time, I try to take the bus home or walk back to the main bus stop,
which is about a 30-minute walk from my school.