When is it good to text a friend, after hanging out?

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ShadesOfMe
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08 Jul 2012, 4:09 pm

I spent time with a friend yesterday. Despite my nagging bad feelings that I might have given too much of myself away, I'd like to text message him again. He usually text messages me throughout the day. This was the first time we've hung out outside our aspie group. We saw a movie, and then his mom and mine joined us for dinner. I had fun, but like I said, the feelings above.

When is it appropriate to message him? I messaged him last night and said I had fun. he messaged me telling me to tell him when we could hang out again.


When do I message him back after our conversation last night? Today?

Just so you know, nothing is romantic here. :)



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08 Jul 2012, 4:42 pm

yeah just text him back when ever =) when ever you know your plans let him know, whats up, so you two can hang aagain....
meanwhile.... my aspie mate goes "naa, you text me" one week later i swear imma string a loud speaker into his bedroom =) and yell "WHEN CAN WE HANG OUT AGAIN?" =) lol Im glaad you're no where near as bad as me n my mate =)



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08 Jul 2012, 4:59 pm

Thanks. I guess I'll text him then. :P


who is that in your avatar? she's lovely.



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08 Jul 2012, 5:02 pm

ShadesOfMe wrote:
Thanks. I guess I'll text him then. :P


who is that in your avatar? she's lovely.


Thats Horro from Spice and Wolf. Shes a Wolf god of fertility so yes she is lovely isnt she =)
And good luck with your friend.