OliveOilMom
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03 Aug 2012, 3:16 pm
Dilbert wrote:
Pickup artists always come on too strong. It is part of what they do. And it works remarkably well, doesn't it?
There is a different way to talk to people if you are just trying to pick them up than if you are trying to start a relationship. I'm assuming that the OP meant he comes on too strong when he's starting a relationship.
For aspie boys the issues are those I stated. Yes add general lack of social skills to it, but from those fall out the more pressing problems that are so immediately obvious to women.
But the things you listed are things that you can learn to fake and to hide.
I'm an outsider looking in so I could be wrong about this of course. If I am, please tell me how and where.
There is a different way to talk to people if you are just trying to pick them up than if you are trying to start a relationship. I'm assuming that the OP meant he comes on too strong when he's starting a relationship.
For aspie boys the issues are those I stated. Yes add general lack of social skills to it, but from those fall out the more pressing problems that are so immediately obvious to women.
But the things you listed are things that you can learn to fake and to hide.
I'm an outsider looking in so I could be wrong about this of course. If I am, please tell me how and where.
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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.
The link to the forum is http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com
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