If you dont like kissing does that mean you dont like sex?

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^This. To the point I've chosen to date certain people because I was actually attracted to their smell, and felt it wouldn't bother me too much if we got involved on a sexual level. One of the best movie quotes I've ever heard is from The Holiday. Cameron Diaz's character has propositioned Jude Law's, and mentions how her ex boyfriend repeatedly told her that she wasn't good at sex. Cameron and Jude kiss. He tells her that he thinks her boyfriend is wrong, and asks about her opinion on foreplay. She tells him that she think it's highly overrated, to which he responds something akin to, "You're fast becoming one of the most fascinating women I've ever met". My kind of situation.

Kissing grosses me out. I hate being kissed and I hate watching other people kiss (the sounds they make--disgusting!). Generally I am very uncomfortable with other people's bodies and am grossed out by bodily fluids. The very limited number of sexual experiences I have had were very awkward and uncomfortable. I did not enjoy it, I just did it because I was sick and tired of being made fun of for being a virgin. But I'm not closed off to the idea that I could someday enjoy these activities with the right person.

Absolutely [email protected] last two posts, in a totally non judgmental way btw. I mean, I get where you guys are coming from, it makes sense how you explain it. For me, I totally love kissing, but I tend to think about it too much when I'm doing it, hoping to do it right and trying to synchronize the kiss, it's possible that this is the reason why some girls I've dated I've really gelled with on a kissing level, and some were essentially "bad kisser," or at least we weren't on the same level.

Kissing & sex are two different things but if you don't like kissing you probably won't like kissing being part of sex but it doesn't have to be,

I hate kissing. When I got my first (and last!) all I could think was, 'this is it? this is terrible! there's a tongue in my mouth and I don't like it!'

Needless to say, the relationship quickly went into the land of no return after that.

I love to kiss, just not on the mouth. I like to kiss necks, bellies, earlobes, etc, but definitely nothing on the mouth. I also enjoy sex, but there are people out there that are pretty terrible at it and which make it unpleasant. Sex is something that can get better and better as you learn what excites and pleases your partner (and vice versa).

I too like kissing!! Eventhough i am still a virgin, it means i am somewhere in how far i have gone with any woman i hung out or been on a date with.