If you dont like kissing does that mean you dont like sex?

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07 Aug 2012, 6:18 pm

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I cant stand toungue kissing at all..I never have..especially if the person im kissing has bad breath, or has just drunk a cup of coffee or anything..the smell is so repulsive i almost want to vomit. I dont mind sex as long as I dont have to perform a lot of forplay and I dont like being touced a lot..if its the smell of kissing you dont like, the smell of sex may be a problem as well, I almost cant stand the smell and I have to have my partner shower and clean very well before sex and brush thier teeth and use mouthwash or the body stink and bad breath makes me sick..It has caused all sorts of hell in an otherwise good marriage..


^This. To the point I've chosen to date certain people because I was actually attracted to their smell, and felt it wouldn't bother me too much if we got involved on a sexual level. One of the best movie quotes I've ever heard is from The Holiday. Cameron Diaz's character has propositioned Jude Law's, and mentions how her ex boyfriend repeatedly told her that she wasn't good at sex. Cameron and Jude kiss. He tells her that he thinks her boyfriend is wrong, and asks about her opinion on foreplay. She tells him that she think it's highly overrated, to which he responds something akin to, "You're fast becoming one of the most fascinating women I've ever met". My kind of situation.



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08 Aug 2012, 7:06 pm

Kissing grosses me out. I hate being kissed and I hate watching other people kiss (the sounds they make--disgusting!). Generally I am very uncomfortable with other people's bodies and am grossed out by bodily fluids. The very limited number of sexual experiences I have had were very awkward and uncomfortable. I did not enjoy it, I just did it because I was sick and tired of being made fun of for being a virgin. But I'm not closed off to the idea that I could someday enjoy these activities with the right person.



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08 Aug 2012, 7:34 pm

Absolutely [email protected] last two posts, in a totally non judgmental way btw. I mean, I get where you guys are coming from, it makes sense how you explain it. For me, I totally love kissing, but I tend to think about it too much when I'm doing it, hoping to do it right and trying to synchronize the kiss, it's possible that this is the reason why some girls I've dated I've really gelled with on a kissing level, and some were essentially "bad kisser," or at least we weren't on the same level.



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08 Aug 2012, 7:38 pm

Kaelynn wrote:
I hate kissing! I dont understand why any one would like it! Its so gross! It feels weird. I hated it and Im woundering, if I hate kissing does that mean I will hate sex also?

Kissing & sex are two different things but if you don't like kissing you probably won't like kissing being part of sex but it doesn't have to be,


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02 Jun 2013, 1:42 pm

I hate kissing. When I got my first (and last!) all I could think was, 'this is it? this is terrible! there's a tongue in my mouth and I don't like it!'

Needless to say, the relationship quickly went into the land of no return after that.


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04 Jun 2013, 1:38 pm

I love to kiss, just not on the mouth. I like to kiss necks, bellies, earlobes, etc, but definitely nothing on the mouth. I also enjoy sex, but there are people out there that are pretty terrible at it and which make it unpleasant. Sex is something that can get better and better as you learn what excites and pleases your partner (and vice versa).


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04 Jun 2013, 8:13 pm

I too like kissing!! Eventhough i am still a virgin, it means i am somewhere in how far i have gone with any woman i hung out or been on a date with.


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