_DyL_ wrote:
I've been in a few, I know how to 'get a girl' though I don't see the point.
It'll last 2 weeks, you'll end up ruining your friendship(s) and it's just pointless.. >.<
This is how I feel about most relationships too. I'm in a relationship and have been for almost a year. But the majority of relationships I've had before then (not many though) were pretty much just that. And this is the case with most people as well.
I find that relationships for myself are hard. And I do think that having aspergers may play a bit of a role in it.
I generally don't like friendships, and if I do it's few people I like to be around and we normally don't talk too much, and I don't see them often as I get what I like to call "socially exhausted" very easily.
And with being in a relationship they'll usually want to spend time with you ALL the time, unless you find someone who also likes to have a bit of their own space.
It's also difficult if they don't understand your diagnosis in some cases. (depends on each person, you know?)
But I basically feel that searching for a relationship is pointless. Coming across someone, becoming friends, then turning it into a relationship is usually the best thing I think. That way you can get to know them and they can get to know you.
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-Abi
Your Aspie score: 171 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 17 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie