Do people see you as an insensitive, rude & cold person?

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I got that marked on me since I was a little kid.

Maybe I am just like that, despite my autism.

Anyone else feel the same way about him/herself?

Some do
Some don't
I am these ways on an very individual basis.
I wish to almost completely if not totally eliminate this part of my behavior if possible. I feel like patience, understanding, and a healthy respect for nearly all people is a far more valuable attitude to own. To be able to relate, understand, be nice, and help people in general is my goal. I hope to not create anymore negativity than what is needed.

My parents do.

I've used so much time to eliminate those traits that I don't have them at all anymore. People may have thought that of me, if they misunderstood me. But I've always been very sensitive. And if you have Aspergers I believe you can think the same way as Pondering does, because this is after all logical ^^

Sometimes they do.
Sometimes they think I'm overly sensitive, clingy and naive.
But most of the time, I have no idea what people think of me or how they see me.

I think more arrogant than insensitive, though if I try not to be then people see me as weaker. I do find it interesting that different people see me differently, even though I rarely act differently to anyone.

Yeah, a lot of people see that in me because I find it hard to show my emotions in front of people.

people told me sometimes that I say mean things without me realizing it ;_;

I'm an indisputably sensitive person, but I often unintentionally come across as cold and rude. My parents told me the other day that I used to be the kindest person when I was a child. It bothers me that they said I used to, because it implies that I'm not that way anymore. I do know that I'm a lot more bitter and distrustful towards other people than I was as a child, and I have a bad habit of speaking whatever is on my mind regardless of whether it's socially acceptable or not. Sometimes when others become hurt by my words, I can't understand why they got hurt because I didn't think I was being rude.

Most people see me as warm and caring, actually. Yes, I do stick my foot in my mouth more often than I would like but most people who know me see the overall picture and know I mean no harm. I also go out of my way to try and be nice to people and help them where possible, so my social foibles are more easily forgiven.

I can be very harsh and cold, but not in general, it really depends on the situation and who just ticked me off xD

More often than not, yes.

Many people do.

I have a very close knit circle of people that I interact with regularly. I've worked really hard to be caring and amiable towards them. I suspect that I still come off as strange and distant to them sometimes...

I think many strangers see me this way...

It depends on who I'm interacting with and how they've treated me in the past. If they aren't nice to me, I see no reason to be nice to them.

I'm also like that in general around strangers. My mom thinks I do it on purpose to piss people off.

I believe people see me as a rather cold but polite person