How would most people describe you?

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Most people (schools, jobs) described me as:
Weird
Gay
p****
Wimp
Geek
Nerd
Stupid
Idiot
ret*d
Loser
Arrogant
Lazy
Selfish
Vain
Neurotic
Paranoid
Crazy

There were a few who thought I was just
Nice
Shy
Introvert
Harmless

I've gotten harmless often

grumpy, antisocial, and quiet.

People call me both negative and positive terms, some of them being true and some out of plain spite.

Negative: neurotic, idiot, inflexible, overly serious, immature, bad-tempered, arrogant.
Positive: intelligent, creative, weird/unique, funny.

I'm described as:

Shy
Introvert
Quiet
Intelligent
Weird
Creative
Kind
Stupid
Insane
Cynical
Humorous
Sensitive
Sad
Insensitive
Immature
Self centered
Confused

There are too many contradictions, people don't seem to know what to think.

Weird
Funny
Shy

Depends on who it is. Those with whom I interact with at work on a daily basis seem to like me well enough, and usually comment on how funny, vulgar, and unflappable I am. People who piss me off typically act scared or nervous. Otherwise, it doesn't seem like people really notice me at all, but then I don't really pay attention to others so they could be staring, pointing, and laughing for all that I know. My wife and daughter seem to like me well enough, and I have to live with them so that's all that really matters. I was called a heartless bastard by a complete stranger once when a guy grabbed my arm while choking on a piece of food in a Perkins and I stared him off of me, so I guess people occasionally notice, but it seems like someone has to be on the verge of dying first.

People who know me tend to describe me as a bit odd (or a weird cookie, although I know exactly one person who says that) but nice, kind, sweet etc.

People who don't tend to see me (from what I can tell) as a loner, weird, psycho-ish, and as if I had an emotional and mental age of 2.

People have described me as:
quite
scary
nice
funny
misunderstood
self-centered
shy
smart
simple-minded
ret*d
nervous
immature
mature (depends on who you talk to)
rigid

Mysterious is the word people use most.

Most people don't get me because I so often zig when they think I should zag, but I still do things with a good enough sense of taste that's it's more interesting to people than something that would put them off. People always wonder how I know the things I know and they are often shocked to see me do things they never knew I could do. I've always loved to surprise people. Not in an ambush kinda sense, but more in a "Holy crap! That was bad ass! I just didn't know you could do that!" sorta way.

I like getting that reaction. It's pretty fun.

Those to know me would say i`m nice, smart, and creative.

Those that don`t would think i`m one of those specisl kids that are
still attached to stuff like dolphins and don`t have any friends.
They will also think i`m wierd and have the crap beat out of me all tje time.

Quiet.

Since I have been dx as an Aspie, and have learned a great deal from reading books and the messages posted on the site . I really feel more confident about being different.

"Who is that guy? I don't know him."