Have you ever been bullied?

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Have you ever been bullied
Yes, by someone who knew I had aspergers/ was autistic 4%  4%  [ 13 ]
Yes, by someone who knew I had aspergers/ was autistic 5%  5%  [ 16 ]
Yes, by someone who didn't know I had aspergers/was autistic 38%  38%  [ 133 ]
Yes, by someone who didn't know I had aspergers/was autistic 42%  42%  [ 146 ]
No 5%  5%  [ 18 ]
No 6%  6%  [ 20 ]
Total votes : 346

domineekee
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16 Aug 2018, 5:52 pm

Yes, but eventually I flipped out and cleared myself a little more floorspace. :twisted:



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19 Aug 2018, 6:43 pm

Yup, numerous times, and I stood up for myself. There have been times, looking back, in which I've been picked on but didn't notice that they were trying to bully me (light bullying, as opposed to ones that got physical with me). Learned to stand up for myself when it got serious (one instance was so bad that I can't even talk about it), and learned to ignore others and not give them satisfaction. It's hard to do the latter, but it's possible and rewarding.

One time I stood up and got beat by the bully, required several bystanders to come in and hold him back. Still no regrets standing up, with the aftermath enshrined in a portrait of me since Picture Day was the following day.

For most of the times I was bullied, they (nor I) knew about ASD, let alone know that I had it. One of those times (the worst incident), they knew (and I knew of course). :(


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01 Jul 2019, 1:10 am

I'm not really sure, but I don't think so.

I had behavioral issues (still do, sort of but more with my mouth). I was very active and loud. I think maybe that had something to do with not being bullied. I really don't engage my surroundings that much, so maybe I could have been at some point and just never took it in.


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01 Jul 2019, 7:39 am

I was subjected to teasing at prep school (8-13). I was once told by a group of boys I was the 'Missing link'.
At public school (13-18) I was subjected to a lot of verbal bullying.


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