Do other feel this or is it my lack of confidence?

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When I look at a group of close friends they all have a thing, something yey specialise in or love more than anything in the world, two are music- different instruments though- one is dance,one is writing one reading and I don't have one- they all matter to me but, just like the who is your hero/idol question, I feel I don't get a choice because whatever my special interest is at the time changes that entierly, one time it would be Elizabeth Sladen (R.I.P) but a few years ago I'd say Ashley Greene. It depends the same with my passion, it depends what my main special interest character is into. I even convinced myself I liked shopping for a while- its not as horrifying as when I was little but I don't like it unless I want something, and am getting it.
I felt when we had the interests/hobbies/passion talk that I was out of place I love all those things, and I love to draw too but I don't have one thing that means the world. Do other people feel like this? Is there a way of finding my hobbie?

The one from Doctor Who? I didn't show she had passed away. What happened?

Yes, she died last year, she had Cancer and didn't want people to know about it- I am surprised she is yet to be given a very heroic story in the doctor who world of how Sarah-Jane died. She was the most beloved companion they ever had.

I don't think everybody has to have a thing they're passionate about. I don't know anybody like that besides me and my siblings. It's ok if you don't have one or if it changes a lot--just explore the different things of the world and find things that excite you.