Nobody in the entire extended family smoke. Actually smoking would be one of the top deal breakers in relationships. I've never dated anyone who smoke and always confirmed that during a first date. I know every aspie is different, but for me my #1 sensory issue is with smell. I can hardly tolerate anyone who use deodorant, smoke is just not possible.
I guess if an aspie doesn't have much sensory issue regarding smell they probably don't mind as much.
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AQ score: 44
Aspie mom to two autistic sons (21 & 20 )