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29 Sep 2012, 5:55 pm

So who here thinks that they are going to be forever alone?
I am 18 and I never had a first kiss or have been in a relationship. I did have one girl who liked me but I never found her interesting and she wasn't that attractive to me. I know I am not attractive but I have often seen other people that I know get girlfriends and they seem like me. Who here just thinks that they cannot for whatever reason get a girlfriend?



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29 Sep 2012, 6:03 pm

Probably gonna happen to me. Never mind that it takes me forever to get to know someone, and by then they've already deliberately distanced themselves from me. That and I don't really like most of the people in my town, and I don't have the money to get out of here and live on my own or to meet anyone I've met online. It seems really pointless to make any kind of effort when it's apparent you're not going to get anywhere.


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29 Sep 2012, 6:10 pm

I ALWAYS worry about being forever alone. Then I meet someone attractive in the same predicament, and then I'm not forever alone. Patience, my friends. And I also remember that I was eighteen before I had my first kiss, and I've kissed three different girls since then. My ex said that I was a pretty damn good kisser.



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29 Sep 2012, 6:12 pm

I worry about this too......... but then I realize that there is HOPE for me. I just shouldn't give up on myself.....


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29 Sep 2012, 6:13 pm

23 in a month never kissed a girl in on thraaaad.


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29 Sep 2012, 6:30 pm

I have one ex- and no current boyfriend. My hope is to find someone to marry somewhere near the end of my twenties, whom I can stay with for the rest of either of our lives. Finding someone who is compatible seems the biggest challenge: most guys I find attractive - both physically and personality-wise - tend to be straight, living too far away, or both. And I don't think I'm really all that picky: they just need to be healthy, kind, male and gay/bi, and preferably shorter than I am (which is easy) and blond or red-haired. Sparks will likely happen under those conditions, at least from my part.


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29 Sep 2012, 6:31 pm

I fear this as well esspecially when becoming a hikikomori for 7 years.


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29 Sep 2012, 8:31 pm

I am 99% sure that Im going be alone or without g.f (live with my family, so techinaly not alone). But personaly I don't mind.
It not my fault that women don't talk to me or put an effort in it when I go up and talk to them.
Ladies are smart. They need to get off this social BS, well ok I getting off subject I tend to get on rant.
right,right, now Im back on task
Try to find a hobby, listen to music, watch movies.
I exercise, I do grappling, I love running, I like going on wp.
You need to find a purpose in life.
I don't worry to much about ladies because their the one making the choice.
If they don't like me, fine by me.



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29 Sep 2012, 9:36 pm

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Is my life.



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29 Sep 2012, 9:41 pm

In all probablity, this will be me.
When I saw the title, I took it as a positive thing until I read the responses. Whoops! :lol:
It's not something that I see as a negative thing though, quite the opposite.


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29 Sep 2012, 11:29 pm

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXJL7tlECg0[/youtube]

But then...
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DIAEAVKcKrs[/youtube]

Aww...
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Dino, you...



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30 Sep 2012, 2:44 am

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ma3AUEl90s[/youtube] :(


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30 Sep 2012, 6:52 am

1000Knives wrote:
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[img][800:872]http://imgur.com/mrKgM.gif[/img]

Is my life.



This wasn't my experience at all....

Did you take steroids and became a buff? girls find that kind of shape disgusting (for a good reason).



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01 Oct 2012, 4:09 pm

i don't get why should feel so lucky, fortuneate to be born male



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01 Oct 2012, 4:44 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
i don't get why should feel so lucky, fortuneate to be born male


You can switch now if you want.



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01 Oct 2012, 5:01 pm

1000Knives wrote:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXJL7tlECg0[/youtube]

But then...
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DIAEAVKcKrs[/youtube]

Aww...
Image

Dino, you...


:lol: :lol:

Hey, I like to get "depressed" with these songs.

Glamourous sadness --> [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kw_jlRbDNgM[/youtube]


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