Destidude wrote:
While having a preference for a larger sphere of personal space than others, I've also felt compelled to genuinely connect with other people. The latter need has been satisfied by a close relationship with my wife but, nevertheless, I'm often bothered by the superficiality of connections beyond my immediate family. Aside from my need for personal space, what separates myself from others is my aloof and peculiar demeanor. Family members have suggested that my differences may be Aspergers although I'm not sure I fall neatly within those lines and I'm skeptical of hasty self-diagnoses.
Welcome, you sound a lot like me. There's a thread somewhere on here linking numerous quizzes that may give you an indication whether you are an aspie or not. There's some good books to read as well.