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androbot2084
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19 Oct 2012, 3:47 pm

As far as the bar situation the neurotypical clearly wins out for his ability to impress women . But what if the autistic were a celebrity?



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19 Oct 2012, 3:56 pm

androbot2084 wrote:
As far as the bar situation the neurotypical clearly wins out for his ability to impress women . But what if the autistic were a celebrity?


I think thats a rather unfair and generalising statement to say. Women aren't the same nor are they all impressed by the same thing anymore than men are.

Its more that AS guys have a poor guage in what are realistic ambitions in terms of finding a partner. They tend to apply the wrong attraction methods to different people.

For example The infamous autistic e-celebrity Christian Weston Chandler has specified numerous times he wants a white, blonde, neurotypical woman to have babies with. Forgetting that these are creepy demands in the first place it is horribly specific. Some people need to broaden their sights.



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19 Oct 2012, 4:10 pm

What you are forgetting is that the neurotypical may have the same creepy demands as the autistic but the neurotypical is not stupid enough to reveal these demands while the autistic tends to be more brutally honest. I find it easier to edit the mistakes if they are in written online conversations but it is very difficult to take back what is spoken orally.