Hate is a feeling and there are no right or wrong feelings. There are only right or wrong actions. There are beneficial and nonbeneficial feelings, there are healthy and unhealthy feelings, there are logical and illogical feelings, but until you act on something, your feelings are neither right nor wrong.
Feelings are also subjective, so what would be considered the "normal" feelings in one situation would be "abnormal" in another situation. If I had a young child that was attacked and killed by a roving band of rabid kittens then it would be normal for me to hate kittens. If I was Hitler's mother then it would be normal for me to love Hitler.
Feelings are also things that a person can't control, so to assign a right or wrong to them would be arbitrary.
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