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26 Dec 2012, 3:23 am

0.625%

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26 Dec 2012, 6:13 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

recalculating mine:

85/209 = ~40%

Close enough lol.

lol
i wil compare your method with the other method

your method-
received- 90(i had 4 pages...3 full and 6 on last page so just did 28x3 plus 6)
sent-121 (4 pages plus 9)

percent-
74.5

NUMBER of convos-
sent-129
received- 96
percentage- 74.4

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26 Dec 2012, 6:21 am

yellowtamarin wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Here's an example of what I've been messaged recently. I'll grab 5 random messages.

"hello"
"Love to get into your pants lol mmmm!" - (From a 56 year old... yuck!)
"Hi"
"Want to sit on me and ride me as long as you want?" (pass)
"hi miss i think tooooo much sometimes it gives me a headache.lol"

And people wonder why they don't get replied to.

I rarely receive these kinds of messages. Definitely not the 2nd or 4th one. Sometimes I get cut & paste ones but usually I get well thought out ones. It might have something to do with the fact that my account is old-ish, but I'm sure even when I first joined I got mostly good messages (and a lot more of them!).

These arent on okcupid. Some awful nz dating site.

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26 Dec 2012, 12:21 pm

i found OKCupid could be pretty bad, as was plentyoffish. but there were usually a bunch of good messages in there too, so it was worth it. i could never escape a certain proportion of people who put in 0 effort. typically these were men nearly half my age, so maybe they assumed i would be desperate to offer some some cougar action.

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26 Dec 2012, 12:26 pm

Well, who can blame them, really.

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26 Dec 2012, 12:30 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:

Well, who can blame them, really.

you made me smile!! !! i don't think those particular ones found me all that attractive really, i think they figured i'd be easier to seduce, based on the total lack of attempt to start a conversation.

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26 Dec 2012, 12:46 pm

It is a shame when people DON'T READ YOUR PROFILE before sending you a message. I had that problem when I was on Zoosk forever ago (before they started charging you to use it). Maybe you're right and they were just looking to seduce you, but I would think it would be because they thought you were attractive-looking at least, even though that's not the ideal thing to go by IMO (I'm still of the opinion that you should get to know a person's personality first, but I'm weird like that anyway. )

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26 Dec 2012, 12:59 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:

It is a shame when people DON'T READ YOUR PROFILE before sending you a message.

Actually that's the first tip i learned from Wolfheart's and Boo's topics here. And it's the main reason I get replies I bet. I sent another three messages to random people today to pass the time, and got three responses.

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26 Dec 2012, 3:53 pm

boo i think a better thread would be online convos/ actually met in person percentage.

You have a 40 percent response rate ONLINE but you have met girls from okcupid....

while ihave a 75 percent response rate ONLINE and have met 0 in person.

all u need is one

online dating is pointless without meeting people to ugh date

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26 Dec 2012, 3:59 pm

I reply to about 57% of messages. That makes sense. Many of the messages I get are creepy, or just a one word hi or hello.

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26 Dec 2012, 9:15 pm

i replied to 100% (i could always block them afterwards if they made me uncomfortable).

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27 Dec 2012, 12:37 am

I replied to 5 of the last 10 people to contact me.

Of the 5 who I didn't reply to:
3 didn't ask me anything in their initial message,
1 just didn't seem at all compatible with me,
1 I forgot to reply to.

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28 Dec 2012, 6:04 pm

[img][800:96]http://i.imgur.com/Oj81d.png[/img]

on a local dating site.

135/339 = 0.398 =~ 40%

Same % as okc!! !! !

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