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Musicluv90
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09 Jan 2013, 10:19 pm

Ever since my diagnosis I feel like I no longer need to ty as hard to fit in. Internally I am happier, knowing that there is a valid reason that I do not fit in with my peers. I find myself getting lazy attempting to mimic NT behaviors. It's only been a few weeks, but will this wear off. As much peace as it has brought me, I dont want people to accuse me of changing or trying to get sympathy. I'm just tired of trying so hard, and it's nice to realize I dont have to suppress my odd behavior, such as stimming or my odd facial ticks.

Has anyone else experienced this or have any advice?



Logicalmom
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10 Jan 2013, 12:30 am

I think that's great - I think it is like a big "sigh".

You will find a balance, I think. Sometimes it is necessary to "present" NT (ex: job interview), but it is also liberating to not have to "clutch the mask so tight" all the time, so to speak. I hope your self-acceptance does not wear off. People will say what they say.

Enjoy your peace.


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Fawlty
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10 Jan 2013, 3:14 am

I have had the same experience. It took me a couple of weeks to find the balance. No worries.