what type of dateless man are you?

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DialAForAwesome
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27 Jan 2013, 10:06 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

noooooooo, but maybe low self-esteem makes you look like a lower number

. your day will come

I dunno about that. I get ignored and treated like crap a lot, more than most others. I don't see how anyone can find me interesting enough to date, knowing that. Thank you for the vote of confidence anyway.

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27 Jan 2013, 11:18 pm

2-the strange guy.

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27 Jan 2013, 11:19 pm

3 with a little bit of 2.

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27 Jan 2013, 11:59 pm

Solidly in the #3 category.

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28 Jan 2013, 12:44 am

us #3 guys are the most interesting. We can talk to women but we can't get them to date us.

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28 Jan 2013, 2:25 am

Somewhere in the area between 1 and 2

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28 Jan 2013, 9:52 pm

billiscool wrote:

us #3 guys are the most interesting. We can talk to women but we can't get them to date us.

I blame religion. My parents' religion taught me from an early age that sex is dirty and immoral. I can't do something dirty and immoral to someone I care about. Obviously, this doesn't logically make sense, nor is it true... but subconscious is hard to change. It doesn't help that because it's only fairly recently that I've actually had a real social circle, I still form emotional attachments to people very quickly.

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28 Jan 2013, 10:42 pm

One that nobody's interested in so far as I can tell.

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29 Jan 2013, 2:09 am

Pabalebo wrote:

They use shame as a tactic

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29 Jan 2013, 2:12 am

hyperlexian wrote:

you missed one, which i see sometimes on the board:

7 - a man who is extremely picky, with very specific or high standards

Like who???

Name them!!

Or you're not brave enough to say their names and face them?

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30 Jan 2013, 7:09 pm

I am a combination of 1 and 2, along with 5, the weird-looking guy.

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30 Jan 2013, 7:20 pm

I am #3, #7, and #9.

#9: The guy who is labeled a "closed-minded bigot" because he is a Christian and does not espouse extreme left-wing political views.

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02 Feb 2013, 6:33 pm

I'm definitely number 1.

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02 Feb 2013, 6:51 pm

I don't think any of them fit, I just can't come up with any type of date ideas that ever work.

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02 Feb 2013, 7:23 pm

billiscool wrote:

there seem to be three types of men, who rarely or never have a gf.
here are three types
1-shy/nervous guy: this guy can't even talk to women. He never approach women at all.
if he does approach a woman, he is so nervous that can't even think straight

2-creepy/weird/strange guy: this is a guy who can approach women but because of his autism
and his behavior. Many time women will think that he is weird. a creep. so pretty much scares women away

3-pseudo alpha male/no gamer/nice guy/best friend guy: these are the guy that can actual approach women
and are able to talk to women without looking like a blabbering idiot or creepy. however they can never
get women to date them. They are always getting quasi girlfriends (friendzone), can easily get female friends.
basically these guys can talk to women but they have no ''game''

I am a 3 (the pseudo alpha male type)

None of these. I am 3, except I don't really have female friends either. I am comfortable talking to women, just not asking women out, and I tend not to have many friends period. I don't have enough in common with most NT's to ever get "friendzoned." I just remain an acquaintance, if that. There probably are women who like me. I just have no idea who they are.

You should add a #4: "Perfect on paper." That's what I am. A few years ago, in my parents' ultra conservative community, I was the one with whom other parents often tried to arrange marriages with their daughters. Of course, the daughters would have none of it. "No fun." Lol f**k NTs

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04 Feb 2013, 6:40 am

Mix of 2 and 3 these days

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