before I start.... HOLY CRAP!! ! this site actually exists?
Today I asked google "how to fit in" and I was directed to this site. I then discovered what an NT was and there is no way I am one. I've always called NTs the "general public" and that I could only connect with people that are strange or odd (I coined them "randoms"). I never really had many friends because I could never spot the "randoms" in the crowd.... Now I know that it's an actual thing and not something I made up .....I'm kind of relieved.
*so i suppose a neurological history is a good place to start?
-i've never really fit into any group
-i'm a social butterfly
-I've always seemed to connected with autistic/asperg people,
....to the point of being used as a 3rd party translator
-i was diagnosed with ADD, but the doctor was useless
-my friends only seem to last 6~12 months before they get sick of me
-i find emotions... difficult.
.......i find giving people hugs easier than asking how they are
*an NT's description of me:
A nice guy that is very inappropriate.
*ASL
early 20's, male, australian expat living in china.