'm not quite sure what the problem is here.
If she is 42 and you are 24 - emotionally - you are probably looking for a mother figure, someone to take care of you.
She is probably looking for her youth - someone to hang out with and act like a kid again.
When I was 29 my GF was just 18.
It presented all kinds of conflicts - mostly that she was immature and when we broke up, it was not pretty.
We have a daughter together and I have not any interactions with my daughter for 12 years except recently when I tried to reunite with her and she took me to court - a couple of months ago to get me to stop coming around - she is now 18 and her head is polluted by all the garbage her mother said about me for the last 12 years..
You need to look at both sides of the picture - how many kids does this woman have and how old are they?
If she has no kids - and is not married and has never been married, a red flag goes up and the question becomes WHY!
I would be cautious because it looks like a midlife crisis to me and when she changes her mind - they always do - you will be left all by yourself wondering why things did not work out.
Life is a lot like a calendar.
Just think of the 12 months as being 7 year segments of your life.
The first 7 - you are dependent upon your parents to provide for you.
The second 7 - you are a little more independent - but you still need your parents to provide the basic necessities of life for you.
The third 7 - you get a drivers license, become a little more independent, graduate from school. go to school or get a job and start living life.
The fourth 7 years - is usually when you meet someone, fall in love, have children, start a family, establish yourself in the world.
The fifth 7 - you raise your children, go to work every day, try to keep your head above water.
The sixth 7 years - you struggle with money, children going to college and house payments and relationships. This is where many marriages fails.
The seventh - 7 years - you manage to put your life back together, pay off most everything that you own, get your kids out of the house, maybe down size to a smaller house and start planning for retirement. 49 years old.
The eighth - 7 years - your kids starts to have kids, you now have grandchildren, the money cycle starts all over and if you are lucky - none of them fails in their relationships and asks to move back home.
The ninth - if you planned for it, you can retire and then you can sit around the house and wonder who is this woman I married.
You realize that it is too late to go out and look for another one - so you accept the fact that you are stuck with each other and you try to make the best of it.
You pick up a hobby, do the chores around the house you neglected all these years, go on vacations, go to visit the kids blow some money on gambling.
Before you know it, you are 80 years old and too old to go out of the house and do much of anything and all you have left to do is to pray to god that he will take you while you sleep so you don't have to suffer somewhere in a old folks home.
A quote from the movie - Grumpy Old Men - when Burgess Meredith said - you wake up one morning and you realize that I'm not 81 anymore!