hanyo wrote:
I wasn't always this way but I think I'm probably asexual/aromantic now
Can sexuality actually change beyond the years? I didn't know that.
I don't know if I'm actually asexual and/or aromantic.
I've never felt desire for physical contact/sex with another person.
But I do observe other people bodies and feel a kind of physical attraction at times (don't know if it should be called this way).
But I do observe both males and females. I feel attacted by both genders, kinda, but I don't know if I'm bisexual, because I am extremely moody and I have a lot of swings, so I can't really know. Whatever. I never question myself about my sexuality, and I've never been interested in knowing what my sexuality exactly is. I just accept it as it comes, and don't question myself about it.
About aromanticism I'm not sure.
Someone is supposed to be aromantic when they don't fall in love, am I right?
I do not feel love as other people describe it.
Actually, I've never felt love at all.
I've felt something only for one person in my life until now (still feeling it) but it's more similar to tenderness than love.
I guess that the type of love I feel is more like tenderness then.
Another thing: is asexuality supposed to imply the lack of sexual fantasies? I've never understood what asexuality exactly was.