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aspiekelly
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21 May 2013, 10:57 pm

I've been on dating sites and while it seems like they just want sex, I'm looking fur a serious relationship. Anyone nice messages me for months and never meets me in person??? I don't even get asked on a date. Why do they bother messaging???



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21 May 2013, 11:12 pm

I've tried looking for a relationship myself but it seems that most girls don't like me. It's a shame really.

I'm sorry you've been through all this, I even tried dating sites but no one ever responds.



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21 May 2013, 11:32 pm

You're really cute



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21 May 2013, 11:34 pm

I get judged a lot before girls on OKC or POF decided to message me back or not


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22 May 2013, 12:00 am

Aspie Kelly and MacGyver Aspie sitting in a tree...


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22 May 2013, 2:12 am

aspiekelly wrote:
You're really cute


Can confirm as a buddy of MacGyverAspie :thumleft:



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22 May 2013, 2:15 am

redrobin62 wrote:
Aspie Kelly and MacGyver Aspie sitting in a tree...


...and The_Face_of_Boo comes with an axe to cut it....la la la...



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22 May 2013, 2:29 am

aspiekelly wrote:
You're really cute


So are you contacting with guys firstly based on their looks?
(Ha, who am I kidding, I know the answer)



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22 May 2013, 3:02 am

Don't go for the most handsome, cute and hot guys. Those guys usually get lots of messages, so they are not hurried at all in getting into a serious relationship. Lower you expectatives. Try to mail some 'average' guys.


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22 May 2013, 3:24 am

redrobin62 wrote:
Aspie Kelly and MacGyver Aspie sitting in a tree...

:heart:


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22 May 2013, 8:07 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
aspiekelly wrote:
You're really cute


So are you contacting with guys firstly based on their looks?
(Ha, who am I kidding, I know the answer)


Actually, no, my last boyfriend was not at all "hot".



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22 May 2013, 8:16 am

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22 May 2013, 12:36 pm

MacGyverAspie wrote:
I've tried looking for a relationship myself but it seems that most girls don't like me. It's a shame really.

I'm sorry you've been through all this, I even tried dating sites but no one ever responds.


You didn't message me that's why ;)



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22 May 2013, 1:00 pm

aspiekelly wrote:
You didn't message me that's why ;)

Well I just did, lol. :)