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Dinonut92
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23 May 2013, 12:53 pm

Hi everyone. I need some ideas. I've been thinking lately that I want a girlfriend. I know that first I need to have friends that are girls but I don't know where and how to meet them.

Any thoughts and ideas are appreciated.



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23 May 2013, 4:37 pm

Aremyou in college or in a workplace with many girls?



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23 May 2013, 6:47 pm

Tell them you think they are cute! Its not up front like your hawt or your attractive is! I mean if you live where girls say your cute, say your cute back.


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23 May 2013, 7:51 pm

Have sex with them they like that! LOL just kidding I dont know just let them come to you at places like college!


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25 May 2013, 5:46 am

Quite simple really,

I presume you have friends already? Go to their other circle of friends or places on interest when you have the means to do so and you are likely to meet more people of potential interest.

An alternative may be to do an activity that involves social gatherings such as martial arts, drama, swimming sessions and so forth, that can sometimes be better for you because you meet people with similar aspirations/interests.


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25 May 2013, 6:15 am

You know what, I a sometimes hear from people meeting their partners on the train, or on the streets, or in the supermarket, walking the dog. Just random singular encounters. And I STILL don´t understand how a relationship can develop from those kind of encounters...



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25 May 2013, 2:21 pm

Don't study computer science, that should do it xD.



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25 May 2013, 2:48 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
You know what, I a sometimes hear from people meeting their partners on the train, or on the streets, or in the supermarket, walking the dog. Just random singular encounters. And I STILL don´t understand how a relationship can develop from those kind of encounters...


Do you know what exactly they do? It’s always seemed impossible to me to exchange a single word with anyone in such places without a very good excuse, and then, as soon as the matter is dealt with, the contact vanishes forever.


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27 May 2013, 6:10 am

Spiderpig wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
You know what, I a sometimes hear from people meeting their partners on the train, or on the streets, or in the supermarket, walking the dog. Just random singular encounters. And I STILL don´t understand how a relationship can develop from those kind of encounters...


Do you know what exactly they do? It’s always seemed impossible to me to exchange a single word with anyone in such places without a very good excuse, and then, as soon as the matter is dealt with, the contact vanishes forever.


The only times I have seen this is from watching movies.


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