How do i get lucky?

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i am deathly afraid i am going to die a virgin i know for some this shouldn't be a big deal but for me it is and i know i should not let it get to me but i cannot help it
it feels like no woman would ever want to have sex with me or be sexually attracted to me
does anyone ever feel like that?
and how do i get laid?

if you want to get laid that badly, then save your money up and go for an escorts.
But if that not your thing, or if you are against it.
there are probaly older unattractive women that might sleep with you.
if you want it that badly.

    That's easy, get in excellent shape and more importantly make a buncha money. Either is good, both is better.
    Volunteer at some places that have cute volunteers, then you can spend a lot of unstressed time around them getting to know them and vice-versa.
    Good hygiene! And dress appropriately.

    Also, if you're afraid you're going to die a virgin, avoid risky behavior like jaywalking or skydiving until you 'get some'. =)

    Relax and don't try to be too proper, don't try to make events (lunch, coffee, or esp. a date) too formalish, or seem too 'important'.
    Have fun yourself and be facially and voice tone expressive.

i do not want to pay for sex thats just to low for me

then you don't want it, that badly. But good for you.

yes i do want it that badly but i'm not willing to resort to that
i won't even settle for an older unattractive woman
i shouldn't have to

Maybe you should change your focus from "being laid by some young hottie". That attitude is going to make you pretty unattractive to most women, unless you have something equally attractive yet vapid to offer.

Let's face it, it's a fact - women are turned off by desperation. Now, whether guys are in turn turned off by them being desperate too, I have no clue. I don't know; I have decided to just back off completely from women for the time being. I am going to live and let live and not force a thing and just be myself.

That comes across as sounding pretty entitled. Nobody is owed sex, unless of course you paid for it, which you don't want to do.

If it's just sex that you are focused on right now, there are a couple of ways to go about it. I honestly don't see why you are against paying for it though. Maybe if you were to pay for it the first time or two then you'd be more relaxed around other girls and it might be easier for you to hook up. Sometimes being really nervous or trying too hard can be a huge turnoff.

As for the older unattractive lady, with age comes experience and you might just have better sex with her than you would with somebody your age.

You can always go to a bar, talk to some girls, find one to hook up with. Try talking to more than one, if the first one or two don't seem interested in you.

You said in your other thread that you weren't attractive, and attractiveness is somewhat important because that's what opens the door and gets the person to talk to you and get to know and like your personality. What do you think would make you look better? Working out some, new haircut, different clothes, etc? What is it that you think makes you unattractive? Find that and work on it.

The whole "I shouldn't have to" thing isn't a good attitude though. Yes, it's good to have self esteem and realize your self worth but if you are seeing that while you shouldn't have to do that, right now in fact if you want sex you do have to do that, I think you should give it a try because at the moment that may be your only way. Also, a hooker can do more than just have sex with you. You can ask for her honest opinion on why you are having trouble with girls and maybe take her advice. I don't see any shame in going to see a hooker. But, if you do that, make sure you get a good one and not a street corner one.

Please don't say things like it may be my only way kids in scholl used to say things like that to me and it really hurt
also who the hell wants there first time to be with a hooker

You are asking many people who can't get laid how to get laid.

that actually makes sense

I understand what you are saying. but I hate to say this, if really want to have sex,
and have trouble with the ladies, the only thing you could do is go to an escort,
or find an unattractive women, ( it can be a younger one too), or just get lucky.

but be warn, not every unattractive women will sleep with every guy.
but there are desprate unattractive women in their 30's and 40's and course
20's, that are willing to have sex with any men who ask.

He didn't anywhere that he wants to ""being laid by some young hottie", why putting words in his mouth?

He said "i won't even settle for an older unattractive woman " - that's fine, are virgin men not allowed to see any woman unattractive?? Should they be thankful if they even get an offer from a woman whom they find repulsive? (ie. dirty, unhygienic one).


I am pretty sure most virgin women (if they exist) prefer older men and have physical preferences too.

You have to put yourself out there, improve your social skills and learn how to attract women. You're not going to get laid if you can't even hold a conversation with a female. Also get fit and make yourself more appealing to them. You haven't given us much info about your situation but if you're the type who stays at home playing video games all day, you have a lot of work ahead of you.

You also clearly have confidence and self esteem issues which you will most likely need to improve before the opposite sex will find you attractive. Start with small goals like making some new friends, and build from that.

Plenty of good advice in this thread. Start applying it and change your attitude, and you can achieve your goals.

as an autism man who has no luck with the ladies, but has had sex before,
here the secret to getting laid for us unlucky autism guys, ( since you don't
want an escort or sleep with an ugly woman)
just wait until some woman ask you for sex.
that how I got laid.

I didn't have to do anything. all I did was hang out with her for 4 months,'
and one day she just went ''hey, ''bill''' want to have sex'''
( my ex girlfriend btw, the cute autism girl)

lucky me, having some attractive woman asking me for sex.
just do that, you get laid.