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theshawngorton
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02 Jun 2013, 7:00 pm

Okay, I met this girl on Thursday. And every single time I talk to her, I get all nervous and sweaty. Like you know? I really can't shake her in my head. I don't get why I feel like this though.

I just wanna be her friend. But the way I feel, I know I'll end up wanting to date her. Is that...you know....normal or is it a autism thing?



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02 Jun 2013, 7:02 pm

why so nervous, just another human being. is she crazy and trying to hurt you all the time?
if not, have no fear.



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02 Jun 2013, 7:23 pm

It is normal, close to infatuation.


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02 Jun 2013, 7:26 pm

I am NOT infatuated at all! Who even says things like THAT?



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02 Jun 2013, 8:28 pm

It is a standard psycological/biological response. You frequently think about her and your sympathetic nervous system is active based on sweat output. If you are thinking that you might later consider wanting to date her in the future you probably think that she is at least somewhat attractive either in personality (as you want to be friends with her) and/or physically.


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02 Jun 2013, 8:43 pm

Y-Yeah, so?



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02 Jun 2013, 9:09 pm

That means its normal.



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03 Jun 2013, 9:44 am

EMTkid wrote:
That means its normal.


Exactly. Your feeling in this situation is normal.


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03 Jun 2013, 1:58 pm

it's normal! it'll get easier with time :P



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06 Jun 2013, 3:00 pm

Go for it!