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billiscool
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14 Jun 2013, 5:19 pm

alot of ladies have told me I don't look 30 at all.
alot of times there are very surprise. they go ''wow you don't look 30 at all''
here a link of an update picture of me.
https://profile-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hprofile ... 4261_a.jpg
do I look younger than 30 or not.


and the reason.
I am holding three fingers up on my hand, that what place I got in my age group (5k)

does looking younger than your real age, help with the ladies or not.



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14 Jun 2013, 5:32 pm

I'm 62 next week and people still underestimate my age by several years. Looking at your picture, you look to be about thirty or so to me - not older, but not too much younger either.
BUT...it is very common for people on the spectrum to somehow project an image that is younger than their actual age. I seriously believe we mature in a different manner that is picked up subconsciously by NTs.
Does looking younger help with the ladies? Depends on what the lady is looking for. A lot of the signaling that goes on between 'possibly interested parties' is sub-conscious - they don't really know themselves. They just sort of know what they like, and they know when it 'clicks'.
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14 Jun 2013, 6:46 pm

I can't tell from your profile pic and that pic you put up, they are to small. :shrug:

Aspies may not age as much as NTs because lack of facial expression, so less wrinkles.


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14 Jun 2013, 7:01 pm

I started a new job at 30 and one of the Women there asked me if it was my first job from school, she though I was 16.

People used to knock on my door of my own house and ask to speak to my Mum.



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14 Jun 2013, 7:08 pm

here another picture of me. I am 27 in this one.
https://fbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net/ ... 9513_n.jpg

or me around 26-27 with my ''druggie look''
https://fbcdn-sphotos-h-a.akamaihd.net/ ... 1822_n.jpg

clean shaven and kept and unshaven and unkept.

I use to grow my beard out, and have long bushy hair and look like a druggie, a bum, or a ''islamic terrorist''
no wonder ladies didn't date me back then. LOL.

I like that unshaven, bushy hair look but that look isn't too popular with the ladies, so now I keep
myself clean shaven, hair cut, or if I have a beard I keep it short. or just a goatee



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14 Jun 2013, 7:16 pm

I think you look about the age of what you say the photos are. :?


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14 Jun 2013, 7:19 pm

MR_BOGAN wrote:
I think you look about the age of what you say the photos are. :?


well, 20-24 year old women I talk to, don't think I look 30. I think I look 29. lol



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14 Jun 2013, 7:39 pm

yeah I'd say 29 rather than 30. :lol:


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