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11 Jul 2013, 12:33 pm

been to a girl school all my life and im soon turning 16. All my other friends are either dating their primary skl friends or guys they meet in summer programmes and stuff. so worried tht when i finally get to meet some guys im gonna b super socially awkward and hv no experience of talking to them at all!



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11 Jul 2013, 12:36 pm

just be yourself and you'll be fine



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11 Jul 2013, 12:54 pm

come back in 5 years. then we´ll talk



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11 Jul 2013, 1:46 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
come back in 5 years. then we´ll talk

Or come back in 2 1/2 years and lots of boys will PM you on WrongPlanet :lol:



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11 Jul 2013, 2:56 pm

I went to an all boys school in high school. Now I'm in college and still don't know any girls. I'm terrified of them actually.



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11 Jul 2013, 6:02 pm

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I went to an all boys school in high school. Now I'm in college and still don't know any girls. I'm terrified of them actually.

    This is probably a very good idea.
    I'm long out of college and I'm still skerd of 'em too.
    Wemin are the debil!!


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11 Jul 2013, 6:14 pm

1401b wrote:
RandomObject wrote:
I went to an all boys school in high school. Now I'm in college and still don't know any girls. I'm terrified of them actually.

    This is probably a very good idea.
    I'm long out of college and I'm still skerd of 'em too.
    Wemin are the debil!!


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11 Jul 2013, 7:54 pm

Just pretend they're people. :P


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11 Jul 2013, 10:09 pm

This sounds like an actually fairly easy situation.

Join an after school activity or summer program that is co-ed. :)



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12 Jul 2013, 12:41 am

outcast759 wrote:
been to a girl school all my life and im soon turning 16. All my other friends are either dating their primary skl friends or guys they meet in summer programmes and stuff. so worried tht when i finally get to meet some guys im gonna b super socially awkward and hv no experience of talking to them at all!
Being female, you have the upper hand. Awkward is cute, and guys will screw anything that moves. Try being an aspie guy :p It is a destiny of lonliness :p


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12 Jul 2013, 4:58 am

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I'm terrified of them actually.


Who isn't?


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12 Jul 2013, 7:36 am

SabbraCadabra wrote:
RandomObject wrote:
I'm terrified of them actually.


Who isn't?


Umm a lot of people.



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12 Jul 2013, 7:37 am

SabbraCadabra wrote:
RandomObject wrote:
I'm terrified of them actually.


Who isn't?


Umm a lot of people.



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12 Jul 2013, 5:10 pm

If you're a girl aspie on a college campus- two words- "Chess Club".

There has to be a campus chess club.

If there is- I guarantee that the sex ratio will be in your favor.

Youll find awkward geeky guys (equivalent to you in personality), and very few (if any) other girls to compete with.



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12 Jul 2013, 5:58 pm

hi
i'm a 28 yearold guy which is probably too old for you . but i like to help you practice talking to guys because talking to girls is hard for me .



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12 Jul 2013, 6:04 pm

Do you have any interest in games such as Warhammer , Magic the Gathering or Pathfinder / D&D ?
If you do then get thee hence to the nearest wargame club, because I can guarantee you that it will be a sausagefest full of introverted and socially shy / awkward fellows.
If my local wargame club is anything like normal, then chances are that it will also be like a magnet for guys with AS.