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Would you reject a virgin as a date, spouse, or FWB?
Yes, virgins are way less innocent 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
Probably, I'm a jerk 11%  11%  [ 4 ]
Yes, but I'm not a jerk 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
No, virgin men are so vulnerable and irresistable! 14%  14%  [ 5 ]
No, virgin women are so beautiful! 61%  61%  [ 22 ]
Both, I know what I want 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
I like experienced ladies 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
I like experienced men 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
Total votes : 36

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11 Aug 2013, 3:43 pm

This is for all. Not just homosexuals and female PUA's. This also goes for hermaphrodites, it doesn't matter.


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11 Aug 2013, 3:50 pm

I don't understand the poll.

I would have voted "No. It's not that big of a deal."



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11 Aug 2013, 3:51 pm

Ladywoofwoof wrote:
I don't understand the poll.

I would have voted "No. It's not that big of a deal."

Needs to be added to the poll list.



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11 Aug 2013, 3:55 pm

If it isn't that big of a deal, then it shouldn't matter if you think your virgin date is beautiful, oh wait it does in all cases. IOW, you shouldn't need to say it isn't a big deal. I would prefer a virgin. If a lady really wanted me, and she wasn't a virgin, think of what that lady would feel like, like crud. I wouldn't let that happen either, I not going to be a jack arse. I'm young though.


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11 Aug 2013, 3:58 pm

appletheclown wrote:
If it isn't that big of a deal, then it shouldn't matter if you think your virgin date is beautiful, oh wait it does in all cases.


how empirical of you :roll:



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11 Aug 2013, 4:08 pm

albedo wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
If it isn't that big of a deal, then it shouldn't matter if you think your virgin date is beautiful, oh wait it does in all cases.


how empirical of you :roll:


Not to mention overly presumptious and judgemental, with a dash of psychological projection.
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Talk about loaded poll options.....
:duh:



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11 Aug 2013, 4:09 pm

albedo wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
If it isn't that big of a deal, then it shouldn't matter if you think your virgin date is beautiful, oh wait it does in all cases.


how empirical of you :roll:

Well can't have you calling virgins ugly on dates with them can we? Why date someone when you can't love everything about them, or at least how they look and behave?


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11 Aug 2013, 4:11 pm

Ladywoofwoof wrote:
albedo wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
If it isn't that big of a deal, then it shouldn't matter if you think your virgin date is beautiful, oh wait it does in all cases.


how empirical of you :roll:


Not to mention overly presumptious and judgemental, with a dash of psychological projection.
:roll:

Talk about loaded poll options.....
:duh:


Why, do you think people you date are ugly? It isn't loaded at all.


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11 Aug 2013, 4:12 pm

Would you reject a virgin as a date, spouse, or FWB?

[X] No. Virginity is neither a deal-breaker nor a deal-maker.



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11 Aug 2013, 4:13 pm

This is about virgins, and I even put up a two options for liking experienced dates. It isn't like I put up anything about marriage (other than my response).


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11 Aug 2013, 4:14 pm

Oddly enough, many people find a person's personality more important than how they look.
Behaviour has nothing to do with their physical aspects.

What's wrong with the answer "No It's not that big of a deal" ?
Surely it's better than loaded choices like "No, virgin men are so vulnerable and irresistible"
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Maybe YOU would declare a date to be ugly on a date, however many people are a lot more socially agreeable than that.
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11 Aug 2013, 4:14 pm

No, but there's more to this question than the poll allows for.

It depends on why she was a virgin, people are virgins for different reasons. Some choose to be virgins and others just can't get laid for obvious reasons.

I wouldn't turn somebody down because they were a virgin, but if they couldn't get laid before than they most likely wont be able to get laid with me.

With that said I would prefer a girl who had the ability to get laid but chose to remain a virgin until she met me. ( it's human nature to want that so don't argue)



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11 Aug 2013, 4:15 pm

Fnord wrote:
Would you reject a virgin as a date, spouse, or FWB?

[X] No. Virginity is neither a deal-breaker nor a deal-maker.


Good for you! (there was a both option)


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11 Aug 2013, 4:16 pm

Yes, I like a more experienced guy.



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11 Aug 2013, 4:18 pm

appletheclown wrote:
Ladywoofwoof wrote:
albedo wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
If it isn't that big of a deal, then it shouldn't matter if you think your virgin date is beautiful, oh wait it does in all cases.


how empirical of you :roll:


Not to mention overly presumptious and judgemental, with a dash of psychological projection.
:roll:

Talk about loaded poll options.....
:duh:


Why, do you think people you date are ugly? It isn't loaded at all.


So you prefer virgins, huh ?
Well, the two (highly loaded) poll options for that are :

(1) No, virgin men are so vulnerable and irresistable!
(2) No, virgin women are so beautiful!

You appear to be into women.... so what are you saying here ?
That women who aren't virgins are less beautiful than women who are ?
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11 Aug 2013, 4:22 pm

Ladywoofwoof wrote:
Oddly enough, many people find a person's personality more important than how they look.
Behaviour has nothing to do with their physical aspects.

What's wrong with the answer "No It's not that big of a deal" ?
Surely it's better than loaded choices like "No, virgin men are so vulnerable and irresistible"
:roll:

Maybe YOU would declare a date to be ugly on a date, however many people are a lot more socially agreeable than that.
:shameonyou:

I wouldn't date anyone I thought was ugly, nor do I consider anyone I am sexually attracted to ugly, nor would I make someone I can't say is attractive suffer through a date. Maybe you are being judgmental for me over-reacting to you overreacting about having to compliment virgins.


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