10 Things Americans don't realize are offensive to Brits

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01 Oct 2013, 6:54 pm

I stumbled upon this article and couldn't help but smile at how much the innocent misunderstandings between Americans and Brits sounds a lot like innocent misunderstandings between aspies and NTs...

http://www.bbcamerica.com/mind-the-gap/2013/01/29/10-things-americans-dont-realize-are-offensive-to-brits/

We live in a complicated world :lol:



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01 Oct 2013, 7:17 pm

I think #4 started the revolution.



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01 Oct 2013, 7:27 pm

I think Americans' namby-pamby mealymouthed reticence to swear paints an unflattering picture of us.



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01 Oct 2013, 7:31 pm

The term "Brit" itself can be pejorative. I don't care for it.



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01 Oct 2013, 7:32 pm

my link was clickable, but it didn't have the underline. Did I do something wrong?



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01 Oct 2013, 7:32 pm

Tequila wrote:
The term "Brit" itself can be pejorative. I don't care for it.

what is your recommended substitution?



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01 Oct 2013, 7:33 pm

CuriousMom123 wrote:
my link was clickable, but it didn't have the underline. Did I do something wrong?

it worked no doubt, don't know about the underline.



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01 Oct 2013, 7:36 pm

Tequila wrote:
The term "Brit" itself can be pejorative. I don't care for it.


It can?? Wow, i am never visiting the UK. I would be cluelessly making all kinds of mistakes.



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01 Oct 2013, 7:43 pm

auntblabby wrote:
Tequila wrote:
The term "Brit" itself can be pejorative. I don't care for it.

what is your recommended substitution?


"British" or "Briton" will do just fine.

A fair number of British people use the word "Brit" these days. I just have a dislike of it.



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01 Oct 2013, 7:46 pm

CuriousMom123 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
The term "Brit" itself can be pejorative. I don't care for it.


It can?? Wow, i am never visiting the UK. I would be cluelessly making all kinds of mistakes.


As I say, the term 'Brit' or 'Brits' is seen as less offensive than it used to be, but I probably wouldn't use it to describe, say, an older NI unionist.



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01 Oct 2013, 7:52 pm

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like most Brits, I hate this system because talking to strangers without a facilitator gives me a stomach ache and hives.


OMGosh! I just realized I'm British! :wink:


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01 Oct 2013, 8:07 pm

"Brit" is generally fine.

If you want to impress a native while in Albion, brush up on your geography and general knowledge of Britain. I think we're easily impressed by U.S. Americans especially who make the effort. But of course, one notable error like thinking Cornwall's a city will mean you're back to square one. Perhaps learn a dozen or more cities in the British Isles if you don't know that many already, and similarly with our counties.

Another source of respect would be correct pronunciation and stressing of place names and I'll throw down some examples because it's 2am and this is what I do:

Birmingham = Burr-ming-UM (not Burr-ming-HAM/-HAYUM)
This same rule applies for most "-ham" towns. Durham = DUH-rum.

Scarborough = SCAR-bur-UH (not Scar-BRO)
This same rule applies for most "-borough" towns, including cases like Middlesbrough and Edinburgh.

Cheshire = CHESH-uh (not Che-SHY-uh)
This same rule applies for most "-shires" despite "Shire" being pronounced "SHY-uh", although examples like CHESH-eer, SHROP-sheer and WUSS-ter-sheer are also used.

Leicester = LESS-ter
This same rule applies for examples like Worcester (WUSS-ter) and Gloucester (GLOSS-ter).

Plymouth = PLIH-muth
This same rule applies for examples like Portsmouth (PORTS-muth) and Cockermouth (Cock-UH-muth).

Then there are other strange variables, eg. Southwark = SUTH-uk, Keswick = KEZ-ick, Norwich = NOH-rich, Salisbury = SOLS-bury.


I've forgotten what I was attempting to achieve with this or why, but that should make anyone well-prepared and leave us natives appreciative. :wink:



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01 Oct 2013, 8:38 pm

Tequila wrote:
The term "Brit" itself can be pejorative. I don't care for it.


Would you'd rather be called a "Limey?" I didn't think so!



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01 Oct 2013, 8:56 pm

wavecannon wrote:

Another source of respect would be correct pronunciation and stressing of place names and I'll throw down some examples because it's 2am and this is what I do:


What?! That's too much work! We'll pronounce it the way we like (Americans are the only people on Earth who speak English correctly, anyhow), and if the Brits don't like it, we'll bomb them back into the Stone Age and install a corrupt government! :P



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01 Oct 2013, 8:56 pm

I think I'd be about equally as likely to offend someone, no matter where I was, whether it be in my home state or another country. I'm not very good at any form of standardized social etiquette, so I just try to act nice and hope I don't accidentally piss someone off. My concept of etiquette would probably be considered about equally as valid in China as it is in the US. Being in an unfamiliar culture would be unlikely to make my sense of etiquette seem noticeably worse.