Proof that "Nice Guys" cannot exist.
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MCalavera wrote:
billiscool wrote:
Aaendi wrote:
It still doesn't make much sense for so many people to whine about such a vanishingly small group of people. How many men do you know who deliberately go overboard with being nice, just to trick a girl into having sex with them?
don't players do that. players always pretend to be nice to women,to get sex.
how come players and Alpha male are not consider ''nice guys''
is it because their more successful with women.
My observation is a lot of guys successful with women actually fake being nice just to get what they want. However, the difference is that they don't go overboard in terms of niceness (being too nice can be quite creepy and a sign of being submissive/suckingup/weak/passive, etc) and they still show dominant traits that make the girl see the niceness as something genuine (even if it's not).
The reason those guys don't go overboard is because they know when to move on. That's hard for Aspies to know when and how to do. Like with our monologues and special interests. Knowing when to move on depends on body languages and cues...here we go. So we are "creepy" because of it. And some of us get bitter as a result. And blame women for shooting them down over things they can't change, calling women "shallow" and "entitled". Then for some people, THAT becomes a special interest.
The thing we have to remember to is, we have to live with Aspergers. They have to live with being NT. They can't change their mental make up anymore than we can.
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Shebakoby wrote:
Nice Guys™ don't exist......... here. I've never seen one. Never had one approach me or be interested in me. Guess I'm lucky?
I knew one or two. I was the girl they whinged to when the "hot" girls wouldn't date them. Funnily enough, while saying all women where witches for not dating them, they never actually asked me out.
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