When do you become boyfriend and girlfriend?

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jinto1986
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16 Nov 2013, 2:08 am

I am 27, so I really feel like I should know the answer to this question, but have no experience at all in this area... so don't lol. I just went out with this aspie girl (actually didn't fully know she was aspie beforehand, though it does make sense). I definitely think we hit it off, and have talked several times before, also hitting it off, but at what point do we become more than just friends dating? Does that question make sense?



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16 Nov 2013, 2:25 am

It's hard to tell. I struggle with that question, too. From what I've heard, when talking to a psychologist and a friend, is that it happens naturally and non-verbally, through body language and the diminishing of personal space between 2 people.



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16 Nov 2013, 2:29 am

There's currently a thread on that exact topic:

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt244981.html



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16 Nov 2013, 2:49 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
There's currently a thread on that exact topic:

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt244981.html

Oh sorry lol



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16 Nov 2013, 3:21 am

No worries! I find it amusing how similar topics often come up at the same time, seemingly independently. :)