why are some women very direct

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billiscool
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16 Nov 2013, 6:49 pm

so,why are some women more direct with
guys than other women,here some example
1-high school girl want me to hug her,and kiss
her,sadly we never dated(this was when I was in school)
2-my ex gf,(''the cute autism girl'')asked
me out,and ask to me to have sex with her
3-at a party,a girl came right up to me,and
cuddle with me,sadly I didn't pickup,she was
interest.
4-a female,gave me her phone number,
sadly I never called.
5-my female friend,just kissed me on lips,
now were more or less dating.

so,how come very few women are as direct
as these ladies above,not just with me,but
with other guys too.



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16 Nov 2013, 6:55 pm

Because people have different personalities.


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16 Nov 2013, 6:59 pm

Good question.



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16 Nov 2013, 7:10 pm

It can take forever if you're waiting for a guy to ask you anything. Might as well just bring it up yourself.

Would you prefer that we send you signals you can't read anyways?



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16 Nov 2013, 7:25 pm

For the same reason some guys are pickup artists and some are. People are different, not just men or women.



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16 Nov 2013, 7:44 pm

Could be that you're a Love god and so Women cant help their direct actions, like those Lynx Effect aftershave ads, they just gotta have you



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16 Nov 2013, 7:54 pm

Nambo wrote:
Could be that you're a Love god and so Women cant help their direct actions, like those Lynx Effect aftershave ads, they just gotta have you


I have no idea,why I've been directly approach by women.
I also have had women just start conversation with me.
Im no rock star,or male model,but I probaly had more
direct approach than most aspie men,maybe most
nt men too,I can't really tell you why either,it
just happens.



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16 Nov 2013, 10:01 pm

Wish an attractive woman would approach me...I don't even know if any women are sending any signals whatsoever, so it would be nice for once...

Oh well, back to pining for my best friend... :(


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17 Nov 2013, 6:17 am

Where do you live? maybe it's a cultural trend there


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17 Nov 2013, 6:22 am

Another answer could be: because some men are very pushy.



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17 Nov 2013, 7:38 am

I feel so bad for the forward women. So heavenly are their spirits, so courageous their hearts. But alas, ever so often do the best get the worst, a travesty of modern society.

Let it be known that Shau admires and appreciates all women willing to do that precious thing: Make the first move. Oh how heavenly, how courageous, and most of all...most merciful you are! Feel proud, knowing that you forge forward into a new dawn for women, wherein they will not be discriminated for having bigger balls than their fellow kind (including many men)!



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17 Nov 2013, 7:48 am

Where are all these forward women?



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17 Nov 2013, 7:57 am

Because you're a sexy beast.



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17 Nov 2013, 8:17 am

Thanks, Boo. :D



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17 Nov 2013, 8:29 am

octobertiger wrote:
Thanks, Boo. :D



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17 Nov 2013, 8:37 am

Good job tigresses are thick as telegraph poles, then :lol: