Other-- the hunk with no brains, men who are always looking for a fight, the complainer, men cheating on their spouse, the elitist, the Mommy's boy, men who can't stop bragging about themselves, and men with traditional gender roles.
I was extremely picky in my choice for my mate-- due to my spiritual beliefs, I knew that I deserved someone who would edify me and make me very happy. It's why I went a year or two between boyfriends in college. My husband exceeded all of my requirements-- he is loyal to a fault, he adores me, he is incredibly understanding of my meltdowns and social anxiety (aka reclusiveness), he takes care of all of the chores when I've had a rough day with our daughter and don't have the energy to do them, he cooks dinner most nights, etc.
I needed an equal contributor in every way and someone who would see me as an equal on his level. That's who I found and I feel indescribably blessed for it-- I literally thank God daily for providing me with him. Because honestly, if he hadn't come along, I'd probably be single for quite a long time.