Schneekugel wrote:
Whenever I hear such stuff, I am thinking to myself, is there is in the USA no "normal sanctioning" anymore? So it seems that every sh**, gets blown out extraordinary, when around here you simply get some stuff like the teacher calling your parents, or you being forced to write 50 times "I will not kiss someone without asking for permittance." or being forced to helpt the janitor for an hour after school...
I mean its about kids, and sure you should teach a kid about correct behavior, and correct it and sanction it, if its necessary, but what about the good old: "Now you go to ... and tell her that you are sorry about your behavior, and I will tell your parents about it." ?
It depends on the USA you live in. Where I live, things like that are just "cute." You also have freedom of religion, and a student's constitutional rights do not end at the school gate. I was able to do some things that other teachers/administrators would have freaked out about if I'd lived and taught anywhere other than where I did.
My approach to teaching while I was still in the public classroom largely fell upon a common-sense approach. The vast majority of the US is rooted in something similar. I'm personally not really a touchy-feely kind of guy, but there is a young girl at my kids' school who makes a point of giving me a hug every time I pick up my daughter. I've seen my kids' classmates just about run my kids over with affectionate displays when it's time to go or when they arrive. In the USA, we tend to be more protective of our "personal space" than in other cultures, and when you couple that with a rogue administrator's inflated sense of political correctness, it's a disaster waiting to happen.
I mean, who suspends a 6-year-old for a smoocher? I agree that the kid's behavior should be corrected because he has a history of bothersome behavior. But you don't suspend a kid that young for that.
That's the OTHER United States I'm talking about. When you take into account that this happened in Colorado as opposed to, say, Texas or Alabama, it takes on a whole new light.