Dominant or submissive?

Post Reply New Topic

I’m attracted to men with dominant personalities but would prefer to be with someone who is independent and aloof than the dominant “what I say goes” type or the submissive type. I just want to be treated respectfully and have physical space.

I voted dominant because I’m attracted to guys who give off that vibe but I don’t want to date them.

I say dominant in the poll but actually me and the fiancé ( male ) are both switches in life and bedroom . There is definitely a dom and sub role involved and I'm more a sub and he is more a dom . Despite being switches there is always a more stronger side to the person .

If that's true, that would mean autistic women have higher sex drive. And desire sex more. A natural consequence of higher levels.

I don’t think that’s true. I’m an autistic female who is asexual.

It's not that simple. Most hormones have complex, hard-to-predict, highly individualized effects on behavior. And often on physical functions, too. A lot of it depends on how sensitive various cells are to that hormone, and whether regulatory functions try to interfere with the hormone's effects, and so forth. Eg a type 2 diabetic produces plenty of insulin, but their cells aren't very sensitive to insulin, so the insulin they're producing has trouble actually affecting anything.