I did not invite debate over this, I did however explain the logic behind why I was asking. The reason for that is so people understood what I was asking for.
savvyidentity wrote:
This is a question for the (heterosexual) men. It needs a little explaining.
It seems to me that over the long run free online dating is completely useless.
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So the question is, have you ever used or heard of a site that meets both of those criteria? The 'net seems to draw a complete blank on that particular question.
If I'm not interested in hearing what you have to say, it's because you're more interested in refuting what I have to say than actually answering the question. The specifics are only important for the purpose of getting feedback on what men here have actually tried that works (for paid sites).