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07 Feb 2014, 8:01 pm

My personal sexuality is more oriented towards kink than sex, technically... a sexual attraction that has some assigned meaning, I suppose. This is the same for fetishes I assume, except that those are more singular and the former more story-driven.

If anyone reads nifty.org here, these are the kind of stories I like the most: http://www.nifty.org/nifty/prolific.html#randallaustin

So... are you more kinky or vanilla?


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07 Feb 2014, 10:30 pm

depends on your definition I guess

I grew up in a fundamentalist family, they told me I was sick just for being lesbian. Female attracted to female no kinky to me but is to them.

vanilla as far as activities go.


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07 Feb 2014, 11:19 pm

I am opposed to pain for any reason.



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08 Feb 2014, 12:26 am

Bondage may be interesting or even Domination. I'm not so much into the S & M.

I am very much into a kind of Enclosure Fetish. This would include a variety of Latex Fetish clothing stuff. Some sites have interesting Heavy Rubber gear. Or even spandex "Zentai" suits. Or Latex "Vacuum Beds" that compress the whole body.

As this was posted under LGBT, I guess I'll add that I think there is something erotic to me about Post-Op performers like Danielle Foxx.

I usually think this kind of thing falls under "To much information" but the OP asked. :P



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09 Feb 2014, 7:35 pm

Depends upon mood, of course. And it depends upon the mood of the man I'm with, too.

But I have some pretty well developed fetishes and a few kinks. But those don't mean that I don't enjoy vanilla, too.


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09 Feb 2014, 8:55 pm

Depends on how you define kinky.

I'm not into pain, or leather/latex/bondage etc but wouldn't be opposed to trying some of it if I were in a trusting relationship and that's what my partner wanted to explore I suppose. The things I'm into doing in the bedroom might be considered kinky by some, and plain vanilla by others... so, it depends on how you define kinky. In general I suppose I'd have to say I'm closer to the vanilla end of the spectrum considering I'm not into your typical fetish gear type stuff, but I've certainly used some.. sex aids (cock rings, mostly) & other things to enhance pleasure (drugs & other things) so it's not as if my sex life has been as vanilla as a stereotypical religious couple only fornicating in the missionary position for the purpose of procreation. Heck, I've had multiple partners, too.. at the same time. Heh. See? Not super kinky, but not plain vanilla either.


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14 Feb 2014, 11:00 am

I'm def a lot kinkier than vanilla people are but a whole lot less kinky than a lot of my friends are. My kinks are mostly really easy to understand and I guess they're not the real embarrassing ones but they're definitely strange maybe?



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14 Feb 2014, 3:20 pm

Nothing is strange.

Let me repeat that. Nothing is strange.

There are things that are wrong: anything sexual that is done without consent, or that is exploitive is inherently wrong. But that's different from strange.

Just because the person that you are talking to doesn't share your interest in whatever it is that turns you on does not make you strange (or them strange). It just makes you different. And I guarantee that no matter what your kinks might be, there is someone else who shares them.


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05 Mar 2014, 10:29 pm

It depends on what I had for dinner the previous evening. Actually, 50-50. Role playing is great.



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08 Mar 2014, 3:31 pm

I would describe myself as kinky within reason. There are things I've tried and want to try again. My partner and I (we unfortunately don't live in the same cities at present :( ) engage in spanking and caning, and are both switches, which means we both enjoy both giving and taking it, as well as from time to time with others. Light bondage and other stuff within a trusting relationship is also great, in the general context of role play.

There are limits to what I'm prepared to do. I am not into fisting, for example, but understand that some folk are different and enjoy stuff that others might really dislike: each to his own, and all the better if they can find someone that also enjoys what they like!



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12 Mar 2014, 8:59 pm

I'm a very kinky person. I listen to The Kinks every day.


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12 Mar 2014, 9:02 pm

my back has kinks in it.



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13 Mar 2014, 2:58 am

I'd say I'm a kinkster without a clue. Without' some of my friends I'd be much less engaged with the kink community than I am. Need their help to feel confident to engage.

Didn't know I had a preference for doming until recently.



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21 Aug 2014, 9:28 pm

Very, plus I have some f*******.

I'm taking a risk by saying that, becuase for some reason, the word is very taboo. I made a post on it, and I'm pretty sure it got deleted.
Also, on another site, it is automatically banned or something.

I kinda sucks, becuase I would like to discuss about it, since I have no one to talk to, but it's OK. I won't continue to try talking about it.

So, I'll say, I get turned on by certain things, but I won't say what.

Back on topic. I have never been intimate, so I never been able to try anything, but would love to.



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25 Aug 2014, 1:17 pm

i have no idea yet.


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