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Last October I was invited to my friends wedding reception (he's 23 and his wife is 22). When I entered the wedding reception I noticed this girl who was sat with my friends looked at me with a smiley/happy face as i entered the reception. I sat very close to the girl and her friend and she did not really give me much eye contact or talk to me (I was anxious and quiet that evening). The girl was a friend of the bride and I never met her before prior to the reception.


Towards the end of the night we all hit the dance floor and when I was dancing with my friends the girl threw herself at me and started touching my bum lol. She did this twice. And as usual I got all awkward and shy when she did this to me because she took me by suprise. She also did whisper something into my ear but I could not hear her because of the loud music. When I did not respond to her she gave a 'what the hell face' I did start dancing with the girl and her other friend at the same time which I do not think she was too happy about.


A few mins later we all stopped dancing and went outside for a smoke. While I was outside I noticed the girl was touching up one of my other friends and he got a date with her. However they did not even have a date in the end because he said my friend was "too young" apprently. She is 28 and me and my friend are 24.


I did ask my friend about the girl later that night and he said to me "don't worry it's all about confidence you will get it in time."



Can I have your opinions on this situation and if I behaved in the right way? To be fair she might have just been really drunk lol.

I might think it was a happy wedding party, she had a few cocktails, and got a bit carried away with the moment and started to flirt with guys.

If she ditched the date with your friend because he is too young, and you are his age, then it would have unlikely gone anywhere. I might be relieved that he had to deal with the fake date instead of me.

She must have thought you at least physically attractive if she was grabbing your butt. But in general I might try to laugh the whole thing off as a crazy fun time at a wedding.

Cheers!

That's pretty bold for a girl to do that.

I think he was saying she likes you, dance with her.

Wedding Reception: check
Alcohol present: check
Dancing: check
Her grabbing your butt and coming on to you: check.
Friends winking at you: check

Likely would have been nothing more than a one night thing and your friends were seemingly supporting this. Your other friend that was the same age was actually the best source of support you had. I'm glad your 24 year old friend was there to help you and give some sort of moral support.

If I was dealing with a woman that was overly flirty and coming on to multiple men at a party type of setting like this, I would not be making myself too available to her. I'd be making up a story about a girlfriend if I was single.

Ok, so there was one friend winking. Dancing with someone isn't bad provided you know what boundaries you have for it.

In my opinion she was a drunk slut at a wedding looking to hookup and get laid and you completely missed her signals. IF you wanted to hookup with her, you could have, but you missed her signals and didn't.

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