Alla wrote:
My ex boyfriend and I were dating each other for a year while he was on/off with his older girlfriend. She found out about us (we all work in the same place) and asked to meet me to talk. I told her a few things and the following day he was furious with me for talking to her. We broke things off, I told him never to talk to me again, and I went no contact for a month.
Forty days later, I go back to work (it was right after the holiday break) and he was shocked when he saw me. He talked to me briefly about some work related issue, I responded nicely, and he looked relieved that I was in fact talking to him.
A week later, we see each other at a work function and he could barely look me in the eye, would turn his back, and talk to almost everyone except me. I didn't make an effort to go up and talk to him but would give him gentle eye contact throughout. I sent him an e-mail a couple of days ago asking to meet with him in order to have him sign something for me and he has not replied, which is unusual for him.
Why the distance and nervous feelings? He knows I talk to him now and was behaving well a few weeks ago. Is he angry or is there something else going on (maybe he got back together with his ex and she told him not to talk to me?)
I ask not because I want him back but because he is the boss and I don't want to be in his bad books. I want us to be friends, but his behavior seems to indicate otherwise. What do you think is going on?
Why would you want to be with someone who literally just left his ex girlfriend for you? It's going to be a repetitive cycle.
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