I find it hard to let anything go, always have, but in the past I recall being mostly calm.
I find myself now no longer being calm in all arguments when I always used to be. When you are relaxed it's really easy to win the debate because angry people are thick as pig s**t, but it just tends to anger them more. Maybe because it seems like you are laughing at them, and in a way you are, because they say such stupid stuff how can you help it?
I kinda miss those days because recently I have learned what it's like to feel this myself. I don't like it, especially because if I say something stupid, which I've found tends to happen when you get angry, it really haunts me. I am looking for a fix.