A Girl i care greatly for

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I have a question. I have quite a considerable crush on a girl i have known for some time. However i lack the courage to declare myself. I can face down men twice my size yet fear the rejection of a girl.

Any advice?

Just tell her.

Why do you feel you lack the courage? Have you had bad experiences before?

The more you do it, the easier it becomes.

What means more to you: the potential of being a happy couple with someone you greatly care for, or the fear of being rejected?

If you picked the latter, then you aren't ready for a relationship yet.

Males and females live in separate packs and feel awkward around each other. Here's the reason you can get along with males better than females. And you should. Anyway, if it's true love, there will be no anxiety. This should be for just reproduction purposes.

Well, I could tell you what to do but I'm not going to. Firstly because there are lots of posts like yours and secondly what works for me might not work for you.

So............................

Please spend a couple of hours looking through the 'Love & Dating' section on the site and you should get plenty of ideas for things to try, some of them suggested by me . There is a possibility that your first approach may be rejected in which case you can either move on or you can wait for a few weeks and then try again, but try not to make a nuisance of yourself