AspergianMutantt
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02 Apr 2014, 11:22 pm
Kraichgauer wrote:
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Adamantium wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Before I met my wife, I had been involved with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder, who I had had a sexual relationship with at one point, then had strung me along for the contents of my wallet with promises that we would be intimate again. This is despite the fact that my friends had warned me what she was really up to. Oh, I knew she was using me, but I was in so need of physical and emotional contact after a lifetime of loneliness that I let her do it, hoping she would eventually come around and love me back. I know, sounds pathetic.
Sounds human to me.
Yeah, but I think I was especially susceptible to this woman's manipulation because of the naivety that comes with Asperger's. I recall reading somewhere how it's not at all uncommon for Aspies to be used by those with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I think a lot of us here knows that feeling
I would say that this gives me comfort, but to say that would probably offend my Aspie brothers and sisters who have had similar experiences.
By the way, where in north Idaho are you?
Near Sandpoint.
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I just find it interesting some of the perspective of what women say. Many times I do not see them as understanding males, other then feeling all we are is walking hormones and something they fear and deserve everything that comes our way.. because of not having our experiences, I like seeing my self shown wrong. it makes me smile. even though its sad.
Kraichgauer
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03 Apr 2014, 1:05 am
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Adamantium wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Before I met my wife, I had been involved with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder, who I had had a sexual relationship with at one point, then had strung me along for the contents of my wallet with promises that we would be intimate again. This is despite the fact that my friends had warned me what she was really up to. Oh, I knew she was using me, but I was in so need of physical and emotional contact after a lifetime of loneliness that I let her do it, hoping she would eventually come around and love me back. I know, sounds pathetic.
Sounds human to me.
Yeah, but I think I was especially susceptible to this woman's manipulation because of the naivety that comes with Asperger's. I recall reading somewhere how it's not at all uncommon for Aspies to be used by those with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I think a lot of us here knows that feeling
I would say that this gives me comfort, but to say that would probably offend my Aspie brothers and sisters who have had similar experiences.
By the way, where in north Idaho are you?
Near Sandpoint.
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I just find it interesting some of the perspective of what women say. Many times I do not see them as understanding males, other then feeling all we are is walking hormones and something they fear and deserve everything that comes our way.. because of not having our experiences, I like seeing my self shown wrong. it makes me smile. even though its sad.
I have an in-law living in Sandpoint.
AspergianMutantt
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03 Apr 2014, 2:33 am
Kraichgauer wrote:
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Adamantium wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Before I met my wife, I had been involved with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder, who I had had a sexual relationship with at one point, then had strung me along for the contents of my wallet with promises that we would be intimate again. This is despite the fact that my friends had warned me what she was really up to. Oh, I knew she was using me, but I was in so need of physical and emotional contact after a lifetime of loneliness that I let her do it, hoping she would eventually come around and love me back. I know, sounds pathetic.
Sounds human to me.
Yeah, but I think I was especially susceptible to this woman's manipulation because of the naivety that comes with Asperger's. I recall reading somewhere how it's not at all uncommon for Aspies to be used by those with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I think a lot of us here knows that feeling
I would say that this gives me comfort, but to say that would probably offend my Aspie brothers and sisters who have had similar experiences.
By the way, where in north Idaho are you?
Near Sandpoint.
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I just find it interesting some of the perspective of what women say. Many times I do not see them as understanding males, other then feeling all we are is walking hormones and something they fear and deserve everything that comes our way.. because of not having our experiences, I like seeing my self shown wrong. it makes me smile. even though its sad.
I have an in-law living in Sandpoint.
A single female I hope?
03 Apr 2014, 4:15 am
Al725 wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Al725 wrote:
A 16 year old boy couldn't defend himself against girls?!
I think you underestimate the strength of two bullies, even if they are girls. Especially when the victim is socially inept and probably of meek temperament.
I'm sorry. The original story was quite misleading. I had to read another article to realize that he thought they were his friends and that the 15 year old was his girlfriend. They also frequently hung out at his house, whent to the movies, ect.
It's pretty sad now that I know the whole of it. This teenaged boy probably loved getting attention from girls for once in his life and maybe he thought he'd be rewarded with sex from both of them if he played along with their little "games". Very sad indeed though.
What they did was still sexual assault. They deserve to be in jail. Are you saying that it's sad that the girls are being being penalised for it or is it sad that this happened to the boy?
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03 Apr 2014, 3:05 pm
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Adamantium wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Before I met my wife, I had been involved with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder, who I had had a sexual relationship with at one point, then had strung me along for the contents of my wallet with promises that we would be intimate again. This is despite the fact that my friends had warned me what she was really up to. Oh, I knew she was using me, but I was in so need of physical and emotional contact after a lifetime of loneliness that I let her do it, hoping she would eventually come around and love me back. I know, sounds pathetic.
Sounds human to me.
Yeah, but I think I was especially susceptible to this woman's manipulation because of the naivety that comes with Asperger's. I recall reading somewhere how it's not at all uncommon for Aspies to be used by those with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I think a lot of us here knows that feeling
I would say that this gives me comfort, but to say that would probably offend my Aspie brothers and sisters who have had similar experiences.
By the way, where in north Idaho are you?
Near Sandpoint.
-------------
I just find it interesting some of the perspective of what women say. Many times I do not see them as understanding males, other then feeling all we are is walking hormones and something they fear and deserve everything that comes our way.. because of not having our experiences, I like seeing my self shown wrong. it makes me smile. even though its sad.
I have an in-law living in Sandpoint.
A single female I hope?
I don't think she's married anymore, though on the down side, she's in her fifties.
03 Apr 2014, 3:20 pm
Kraichgauer
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03 Apr 2014, 3:22 pm
Misslizard wrote:
^^Women can still look nice in their fifties.How is that a down side?
I meant in regard to age. I was under the impression that Aspiemutant is quite a bit younger. Unless, of course, he's older than I took him for, then I'll even make a call to my wife's Aunt Carrol and set them up.
03 Apr 2014, 3:27 pm
His avatar says 51, do I hear love birds singing?
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03 Apr 2014, 3:31 pm
Misslizard wrote:
His avatar says 51, do I hear love birds singing?
Crap, he's older than me! Okay, if he's serious, and he wants to contact me by pm, I'll see what I can do.
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03 Apr 2014, 4:45 pm
Kraichgauer wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
His avatar says 51, do I hear love birds singing?
Crap, he's older than me! Okay, if he's serious, and he wants to contact me by pm, I'll see what I can do.
What can I say, I am young at heart
But honestly, I am not sure if I am ready for a new relationship or not, right now financially I am in a pretty rocky place. Otherwise that would be tempting just because it sounds fun, I have not dated in years, been to busy raising my son. he is only 8, and by the time most women get to my age they feel they are done raising children and so have little interest.
Not only that, but really, I am so handsome and charming, that if it didn't workout between us she may end up with a broken heart because of not feel good enough for me. Or perhaps I am just to shy....
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03 Apr 2014, 6:12 pm
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
His avatar says 51, do I hear love birds singing?
Crap, he's older than me! Okay, if he's serious, and he wants to contact me by pm, I'll see what I can do.
What can I say, I am young at heart
But honestly, I am not sure if I am ready for a new relationship or not, right now financially I am in a pretty rocky place. Otherwise that would be tempting just because it sounds fun, I have not dated in years, been to busy raising my son. he is only 8, and by the time most women get to my age they feel they are done raising children and so have little interest.
Not only that, but really, I am so handsome and charming, that if it didn't workout between us she may end up with a broken heart because of not feel good enough for me. Or perhaps I am just to shy....
Fair enough. But if you change your mind, I'll see what I can do.
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03 Apr 2014, 6:27 pm
Kraichgauer wrote:
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
His avatar says 51, do I hear love birds singing?
Crap, he's older than me! Okay, if he's serious, and he wants to contact me by pm, I'll see what I can do.
What can I say, I am young at heart
But honestly, I am not sure if I am ready for a new relationship or not, right now financially I am in a pretty rocky place. Otherwise that would be tempting just because it sounds fun, I have not dated in years, been to busy raising my son. he is only 8, and by the time most women get to my age they feel they are done raising children and so have little interest.
Not only that, but really, I am so handsome and charming, that if it didn't workout between us she may end up with a broken heart because of not feel good enough for me. Or perhaps I am just to shy....
Fair enough. But if you change your mind, I'll see what I can do.
Although, I have no objection to her making her own daring and bold choices.
Adventure is half of what life is all about. only a woman can say what is really right for her.
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03 Apr 2014, 8:24 pm
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
AspergianMutantt wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
His avatar says 51, do I hear love birds singing?
Crap, he's older than me! Okay, if he's serious, and he wants to contact me by pm, I'll see what I can do.
What can I say, I am young at heart
But honestly, I am not sure if I am ready for a new relationship or not, right now financially I am in a pretty rocky place. Otherwise that would be tempting just because it sounds fun, I have not dated in years, been to busy raising my son. he is only 8, and by the time most women get to my age they feel they are done raising children and so have little interest.
Not only that, but really, I am so handsome and charming, that if it didn't workout between us she may end up with a broken heart because of not feel good enough for me. Or perhaps I am just to shy....
Fair enough. But if you change your mind, I'll see what I can do.
Although, I have no objection to her making her own daring and bold choices.
Adventure is half of what life is all about. only a woman can say what is really right for her.
Actually, you and I have something else in common, besides Asperger's and residency in the the Northwest. I also have an eight year old child. She'll be turning nine this May.
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03 Apr 2014, 10:22 pm
04 Apr 2014, 6:42 pm
The truth is America is disintegrating. We might as well close up shop. What a bunch of troglodytes.
Burn these b*****s at the stake!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! 
04 Apr 2014, 7:05 pm
KagamineLen wrote:
This is all very similar to how my aunt and my sister treated me when I was growing up. Yes, that includes the forced bestiality and the humiliating pictures.
Those teen girls will most likely have an army of feminists on their side who will attack the victim. That pretty much is how things went down in my family when I decided to break the silence. My aunt and sister are both extremely lucky that they are protected by my state's statute of limitations. These two girls in the news story, however, make a compelling case for the death penalty.
Yes, reading that news story brought upon me a major PTSD episode.
Those teen girls will most likely have an army of feminists on their side who will attack the victim. That pretty much is how things went down in my family when I decided to break the silence. My aunt and sister are both extremely lucky that they are protected by my state's statute of limitations. These two girls in the news story, however, make a compelling case for the death penalty.
Yes, reading that news story brought upon me a major PTSD episode.
OMG, I am sorry.
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