Eureka13 wrote:
The copy and paste messages imply that the guy doesn't care who responds, i.e., ANY woman will do.
What I get out of it is "your picture met my minimum standards for physical attractiveness, and I can't be bothered to read your profile to see if we have something in common, and, oh, BTW, there were 100 other women whose photos also met my minimum standards for physical attractiveness, and it doesn't really matter which one of them I wind up with in the long run."
No..... Your response above shows a complete lack of understanding of where men are coming from and what they go through. Men send those copy and paste messages because that's the only way they have a good chance of getting replies. That's not to say that a man is desperate or would have any woman,no not at all.. A man is simply scanning women's photos and seeing which ones he finds attractive and sending them short messages and he will converse with whoever replies. Unlike women most men are fairly open minded when it comes to the kind of women they would date. We don't have arbitrary checklists or unreasonably high standards... We just want a decent woman who we find attractive to spend time with us. The fact of the matter is sending women custom messages is more time consuming and doesn't improve a man's chances of getting replies so most men opt to send shorter "hey,how are you?" Type messages instead.