I just got the diagnosis yesterday that confirmed what I've strongly suspected for at least the past 10 years. I'm a 43 year old male, and my story is similar to many of those I've read from other adults on the spectrum. Now that I've received official confirmation, it's a mixture of relief and sadness. Relief in the sense that I can finally connect the dots of a lifetime of not fitting in; sadness over the fact that if I'd been diagnosed as a child maybe I could have gotten some guidance and help dealing with life, rather than having to wing it on my own.
The lady doctor who handled my case indicated I'm somewhere along the ASD. While she couldn't technically call it Asperger's (since that diagnosis was eliminated last year), she pretty much confirmed that's what I would have been labeled prior to 2013. Either way, I'm now a member of the club and I'm happy I found this online community.