when people stop talking to you
It depends, it either breaks me apart or I realise how much of an imbecile the person was to start with or somewhere along the line, somehow lost contact. It truly depends on my situation I was with the person.
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This describes almost every friendship I've had. There are very few people who continue to show interest in talking to me after a while. I only have one person who isn't family that I still talk to, I don't exactly know why he continued to talk to me after all this time, but he is very similar to me; he isn't autistic, he actually believes he is a high-functioning sociopath, which I don't disagree with as many of the traits are there, just not severely enough to cause him major problems.
Other than him though, no friends to speak of. If I try to initiate a friendship with someone it dies out very quickly. If I try to keep a friendship going I am not ever successful. Some friends would even start to ignore me, and I still don't know what I did to this day. If I put myself out there socially I'm sure I'd get a lot more of this than I already have, so I usually just try to be satisfied with my own company. I talk to my younger brothers and my mom regularly, occasionally my older siblings. That's pretty much it. I'm resigned to having a pretty solitary life, and at least at this point in time it doesn't bother me too much.
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"It has long been an axiom of mine that the little things are infinitely the most important."
- Sherlock Holmes
You had offended their identity. When you do that, what I call "the punisher" algorithm is deployed by their identity.
This confusion has happened for me a LOT.
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"You have a responsibility to consider all sides of a problem and a responsibility to make a judgment and a responsibility to care for all involved." --Ian Danskin
I just happened to me again online. Oh well. Most people just stop responding without saying anything, but this one person told me she didn't wish to keep talking and said why. As always, I come off as being argumentative and she thought I don't get different views. I am not sure how to change that unless it's not expressing my own views and just be a listener only and not talk. That will solve everything and keep being shy.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses.
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