Guys how important are are these qualities to you in a girl?

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I messaged plenty of women on dating sites and it didn't get me anything but sadness. so asking girls out is just a waste of time.
far to shy and intimidated to do it in person . far too many variables to consider. with a 99% failure probability and high likeliness of liability and/or possible bodily damage.

she wouldn't give me time of day either, and I'm not too old. shes in the unobtainable section along with most girls that are too good for me, likewise I would be happy to date any of them including her. the reality simply isn't possible, which. I am trying to accept. makes the next step towards ending it all much easier I hope.

Being unhappy about one thing doesn't mean being unhappy about life in general.

OmG on facebook I just saw that the shyest most quiet and insecire girl that I went to interpesonal skills class with just got into a relationship. She was even more socially inhibited and insecure than me and even she managed it. WTF is wrong with me!?!?!?! Makes me feel like a freak of nature.

Keep whining and you'll get a bf within 2 weeks.

Whining girls always get bfs.

Doesn´t matter if I keep whining or not. I will keep ´whining´ if I feel the need.

of course they do
but it's like playing the lottery or putting a blind on and picking a random.
you never know what you gonna get

someone's av here/face is scarier than you btw Boo


hope you find someone nice Cafeaulait : 3

Thinking to much into it. I know its easy for us to attribute some logical explanation to issues by looking at the data but its not going to help. It will only end up frustrating you further.

I have to try my best not to either because it would be far easier to take if I knew exactly what I was doing wrong so I had a goal to set to work towards.

does for me and many others. you're lucky if it doesn't for you. I have way more depressing things in my life then the tiny bit of good stuff(which is all objects that only bring limited time happiness, forcing me to keep buying more things, but i've reached the point where I have almost every object could want.)

There is nothing wrong with you. You will get a boyfriend.

Curiosity is the most important trait for me.

Someone I can talk to for hours about anything that stimulates my mind, computer astrophysics, quantum physics, biology, finance, philosophy, economics. Someone that intrigues me to grow and be curious, someone that is passionate about life and learning.

I hate small talk that lacks any depth, I don't like the company of people who obsess over their status or body, but people who see outside of themselves and the world around them.

Why didn't you ask for his number? Maybe he had no idea you were possibly interested in him. Maybe he was shy. Unless a guy is extremely attractive he'll probably get turned down 9 times out of 10, and stop doing it. Maybe he didn't know you were single.
Also, at your age most guys probably aren't interested in a serious relationship.

Yeah, you are right. I am only 22 and I will probably grow stronger over the years. Only one more subject to complete and I can call me a master of science. I'm going to focus on finishing my studies and developing myself by exploring the things that I've always wanted to do, spening time with friends and family, traveling, volunteering, and maybe even getting a small weekend job. I'm not even 25 yet so many things can change in the next years. If one of the smartest and most popular guys out of the blue once told me that he was suprised that I didn't have a boyfriend yet, I can't be that weird.

Yeah I've stopped trying, doubt I'll every try again even once I get a higher paying job. just been beat down too far to feel worthy anymore.

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