Yuzu wrote:
Not if he only said "hi" even if he was hot enough for me. I mean how hard can it be to read the profile and come up with a few sentences about something on it? I'm not interested in someone who is not even bothered to do that. But this is how I am. Not sure about other women.
it becomes hard when you've done it hundreds of time and get nothing back.
for me it takes like 5-20 mins to address stuff from profiles and try to put it in the message. I use to do this a lot as I was really interested in them after reading their profiles and girls said they liked guys who did this. but the result is the same it was not cost/benefit efficient.
I wasted lots of time, effort and self esteem on this. I got more responses with just hi or howdy hows your day messages. and its mostly what women send to me as well. an ice breaker as most call it. to gauge interest then the 2nd message is more about interests and similarities.
ok should adopt winks/icebreaker options like other sites, but they make their money off of hiding who likes you until you pay them monthly, so that will never happen.
26 Oct 2014, 8:47 am
