Yuzu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yuzu wrote:
^ You call it genuine, I call it lazy.
And you wouldn't reply to that super hot interesting guy just because of this belief of yours? :p
Ffs, be genuine with yourselves people, enough of false preaching.
I don't know if you've read my previous reply to your post but I said I would. But you're being unrealistic here because 99.9% of guys on online dating sites are not super hot and interesting. So what's the point of auguring this.
I am sure you would reply if he is hot and interesting enough to you; he doesn't have to be 1% super hot.
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Also, in a bar girls still could ignore you when you said "hi" if you don't look hot enough for them. But if you said something interesting that might pique their interest you would have better chance.
To a stranger without a hi or hello? Like how? You are purely talking PUA now.
The interesting talk should come later after the hi and a small chit chat/intro.
Ignoring someone saying hi to your face is rude, never happened to me; but why would I want a such stuck up rude anyway. :p
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And you don't seem to get how OKC works. Both women and men are supposed to scrutinize the profile, answers to certain questions and also the ability to write decent message. If you disregard all that, what's the point of them?
If you just don't want to deal with any of that you should use tinder where there is only minimum info besides photos
This how okc works:
Guy sends a first message, girl checks profile:
- She likes what she sees: she replies
-She doesn't like what she sees: she ignores.
The first message has little impact on the outcome; as long it's not 'hey babe" and the like.