how to meet aspie girls to date..

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anthropic_principle
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10 Nov 2014, 7:57 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Don't post selfies, period.


why not? if they're going to dismiss you on that basis how are they worth your time anyway?


People look weird in a selfie shot - it's just a photograhpy advice.


Oh.. I've never thought that.
In my experience over 95% of photos on those dating sites are selfies.



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10 Nov 2014, 8:00 am

anthropic_principle wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
anthropic_principle wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Don't post selfies, period.


why not? if they're going to dismiss you on that basis how are they worth your time anyway?


People look weird in a selfie shot - it's just a photograhpy advice.


Oh.. I've never thought that.
In my experience over 95% of photos on those dating sites are selfies.


Because....

People on dating sites usually don't have close friends to take their photos :lol: - hence why their only option is taking selfies, and probably that's why (them being without friends) they end up on a dating site after all.

Sad but it's true.



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10 Nov 2014, 8:04 am

this one time at band camp...



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10 Nov 2014, 4:56 pm

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Quick question - when would you have time to date this girl?


Most people work 5 days a week, ~8 hours a day, and do activities on weekends, those who have a small business even work more.

Yet, 90% of those people get married or successfully date or get bfs/gfs.

So? I was asking about the OP, not "most people". He seemed to be describing all the things he does as a way of expressing that his time is filled up doing things that don't allow him to meet girls. That's why I asked. If there is extra time for a partner, then there is extra time to get out and find her. That's all I wanted to know.



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11 Nov 2014, 1:18 pm

yellowtamarin wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
Quick question - when would you have time to date this girl?


Most people work 5 days a week, ~8 hours a day, and do activities on weekends, those who have a small business even work more.

Yet, 90% of those people get married or successfully date or get bfs/gfs.

So? I was asking about the OP, not "most people". He seemed to be describing all the things he does as a way of expressing that his time is filled up doing things that don't allow him to meet girls. That's why I asked. If there is extra time for a partner, then there is extra time to get out and find her. That's all I wanted to know.



He'll find time if she says yes - don't worry about that.



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13 Nov 2014, 5:27 am

Lol thanks for all the unadvice. I'm definitely deleting this thing.