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TeaEarlGreyHot
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19 Nov 2014, 5:52 pm

Tell me how to be attractive to men.


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19 Nov 2014, 6:09 pm

You must be trolling. ;)


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19 Nov 2014, 6:11 pm

Observe the women who have men, find what they have in common.

Then observe the women who have been single for long, and find what they have in common.



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19 Nov 2014, 6:13 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Observe the women who have men, find what they have in common.


Pfft. They're all losers.


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19 Nov 2014, 6:13 pm

In that case you need to be a loser.



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19 Nov 2014, 6:17 pm

smudge wrote:
You must be trolling. ;)


This accusation offends me.


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19 Nov 2014, 6:18 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Observe the women who have men, find what they have in common.

Then observe the women who have been single for long, and find what they have in common.


1) They have men
2) They don't have men


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19 Nov 2014, 6:19 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
In that case you need to be a loser.


I'm a loser. Where's my man? Is he hiding behind the couch?


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19 Nov 2014, 6:21 pm

What a man will find in a woman attractive is so subjective. Don't feel bad.



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19 Nov 2014, 6:24 pm

Nothing is subjective.


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19 Nov 2014, 6:32 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
In that case you need to be a loser.


*Sigh*...

I was joking. Do not always take me so seriously. It happens far too often on here. :?


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19 Nov 2014, 6:44 pm

Get a hairdo compliments your face. Find out what colours suit your hair and complexion and experiment with them. Experiment with different types of clothes to see which articles of clothing invite the most compliments, in a sophisticated way of course. I don't mean a dress like a hooker way. Smile. Happy people are considered attractive.


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19 Nov 2014, 6:49 pm

I shaved my head. That's attractive, right?


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19 Nov 2014, 6:57 pm

I'm not sure I understand your question exactly but it sounds like a confidence thing. Your not unattractive and everbody has diffferent views of what they find attractive but if your not feeling it then hit the salon and pamper yourself. Alot of it is just feeling it more than anything, have a day out and get some new clothes and like some one else said a new hairstyle and you'll probably get a few compliments just because you look different. I always find that getting a new outfit does wonders for my confidence because people tend to comment on it.



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19 Nov 2014, 7:01 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
smudge wrote:
You must be trolling. ;)


This accusation offends me.


think meant that if your avatar is your picture then you are at least physically attractive.

could be a two part. what you want in a guy and what guys want in a woman.

both have to line up. so if you want type 1 guys, and theres a bunch of type 2 guys who want you, you'll ignore them and wonder where your guy is while type 1 guys might not like the type of person you are.

I feel this is a lot of why most people are alone. not to say that people should date just to date, but its an explanation.

no woman wants me cause I'm ugly and don't make enough. not to say I wouldn't date/love most women. then I see a bunch of what women tend to consider worthy guys, but they are all already in relationships or players.

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I shaved my head. That's attractive, right?


depends on the guy. I don't find that attractive, though personality and face is more important. so I can't say I wouldn't date a shaved head lady.



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19 Nov 2014, 8:07 pm

Ultimate advice: be you. Express your style in what you wear, how you speak, how you walk, everything. I get feedback ranging to "You're crazy" to "That's amazing" on my wardrobe. It's stuff I like. You'll find someone who will be entranced by whatever and whoever you are. You just need to show it.


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