How do you see yourself in terms of attractiveness?

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How attractive do you consider yourself?
Very attractive, and get girls/guys 4%  4%  [ 2 ]
Very attractive, but still a loner 16%  16%  [ 9 ]
Moderately attractive, get girls/guys 9%  9%  [ 5 ]
Moderately attractive, loner 25%  25%  [ 14 ]
Average 13%  13%  [ 7 ]
I don't consider myself attractive at all 33%  33%  [ 18 ]
Total votes : 55

dirttdan1008
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03 Mar 2015, 6:01 pm

I apologize if this seems to personal, but I'm new and want to know how my fellow aspies hold themselves. I want to know because I haven't met too many other aspies, and I'm curious how many other aspies feel/think the same as me. Please answer the poll if you're taking part in this thread.



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03 Mar 2015, 6:07 pm

Make an "average" option then I would vote.



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03 Mar 2015, 6:49 pm

I'm not bad-looking, especially for my advanced age.

After my mid twenties, I didn't have too much trouble getting girlfriends. Before then, I experienced many of the same problems people on this Site experience now. Then, I decided: who cares when and if I get a girlfriend; it has to happen naturally. I was failing because I was FORCING THE ISSUE.



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03 Mar 2015, 7:13 pm

Sometimes I think I am moderately attractive, and other times I don't think I'm attractive at all. Men rarely come up to me talk or to flirt so I don't know if I just look really unapproachable or if they're confused about my gender or if I look intimidating or if I'm "ugly".



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03 Mar 2015, 10:45 pm

ugly been told so.



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03 Mar 2015, 11:39 pm

Attractive, I've never had trouble finding a man interested in me, recently I point to a website to see if I dared to return to meet someone and They send to me messages at all hours so I guess I'm still attractive, the problem is that I have panic with the idea of a new relationship, but I guess when I got over it will be easy to find someone.



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03 Mar 2015, 11:40 pm

Maybe a 3 out of 10. 4 or 5 on a good day. Which is about never.


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04 Mar 2015, 12:54 am

I know I am very unattractive.



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04 Mar 2015, 1:02 am

Although I didn't post a picture, I have always been told I'm "hot"...for whatever that means...I think I'm average but like anyone else with any kind of desire and funds can purchase their looks. I am blessed though to look about 15 years younger than my real age so that kind of helps. But all in all...I hate how people look at me so it doesn't really matter to me. Attractiveness can be completely manipulated and is an optical illusion.



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04 Mar 2015, 1:04 am

Haven't broken any mirrors yet, nobody runs away screaming and wailing.


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04 Mar 2015, 4:19 am

Having a formed concept of my own self image is something that has only recently been on my mind the last 2 years. I never really knew how I looked growing up because people always treated me like a diseased animal so I always had mixed thoughts. Recent feedback and higher confidence levels in my own self worth have made me realize that I am actually really good looking and am only going to get better looking as I age and have my masculine features further develop. Thinking back I realize that a lot of girls who tried to force contact with me were interested in me at first. Too bad I had the personality of a brick to new people. Still I remain a loner for now and probably will for some time, for all my thoughts I guess I really don't have the drive or desire to become committed to someone just yet as nice as it would be.


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04 Mar 2015, 5:53 am

ReticentJaeger wrote:
Maybe a 3 out of 10. 4 or 5 on a good day. Which is about never.


You're a lot better looking than you think. Even if you don't believe it now you will find out in the next few years that guys are attracted to you.


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04 Mar 2015, 8:40 am

As attractive as my avatar. :heart:



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04 Mar 2015, 9:29 am

People tell me I'm attractive when I'm neat but when I'm not they say I look 'cute'. The way I feel about how I look keep changing too much lol.



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04 Mar 2015, 10:01 am

I would consider myself as average looking. Would I be classified as hot? Probably not. I'm in the average range which is where most people fall anyways. I'm probably like a typical young man. Decent looking, not really attractive but not really ugly either. Although it depends on who you ask.

Also i'm really small for a man. I'm only 5 ft 2 and 103 pounds. If I was 5 ft 10, I would probably be more attractive. Being a shrimp definitely didn't help me in high school with the ladies or the jocks. Not to mention I was always picked last in gym class for basketball or flag football.



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